but how do i know he really does? i get to see him about every other weekend, how do i know he's not cheating on me? i trust him, but there's things you never really know for sure.
2006-12-20 08:35:34 · 22 answers · asked by baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have felt like this sometimes and I know my boy inside and out, there's no way he'd do something like that... it's just your nerves getting to you hun... don't let them! Just keep a smile on and your head up. If you really trust him, then you know it's ok.
2006-12-20 08:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what you need to ask your self is why am I with this man? then why do I stay with him if I only get to see him ever other weekend? Do I really love him? When you answer these questions then you will stop questioning this man about the way he feels about you. I think that you are insecure and and you need to put some trust into your relationship if you still want it to work. If he did nothing wrong to you or he has not made you suspicious of him then you need to work on your self and figure out what you really want. Good Luck.
2006-12-20 16:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by BASHFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not what he says but what he does. If he loved you thered be no question really. Love is not about how many times you tell someone you love them. Thats just what boys say to get in our panties, or what girls say to guys when they want something, or what a child says to make there mommys and daddiys happy.
Love is those moments forever embedded in your memory, the many times he takes your breath away, the thought of you in the morning and at night, love is the endearing look you get love is all lthose little things he does that make you smile and your heart skip a beat. Love is when you want something he makes an effort to get it, or when you want to do something he really has no interest in he does just cause you want to, love is that moment you never want to end. Love is not the many times you have sex ! that is lust that is sometimes mistaken for love.
It doesent matter if you see him everyother weekend, there are many stories of incredible love where people have had to be apart for years. Have you read the notebook? (if you dont like to read rent the movie). Maybe you should be asking if you love him? Do you trust him i would say not if you are worried about him cheating
They key to a healthy loving relationship is communication, trust and respect. And you mate should be you bestfriend, confidant, and lover but be careful not to let your relationship be foundated by a bed of mattresses.
2006-12-20 16:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
faith and patience. i'm going through the same thing only i have to go longer than every other weekend to see him, and right now he's in washington and i'm in texas for christmas. he has been tempted by an ex-gf, she supposedly "pushed me down and climbed ontop and started making out with me"... that's what he says. I honestly believe that cheating is unforgiveable but i know him, and i know it was a mistake, he said that he pushed her off and that all he thought about the whole time was me... and that it strengthened his love for me... and all this other stuff. i know it sounds like a load of bull, but i have faith that he won't do that again, and i'm going to try to have the patience to give him a second chance. every relationship has problems, it's easy to fall in love, the hard part is staying in love... it's something that each person has to work for... give it time and you will know that he really does love you, remember: actions speak louder than words, so pay attention to the way he treats you and not so much the words that he says. good luck sweetie, i hope this helps a little... merry christmas, happy holidays, and all that good stuff. :)
2006-12-20 16:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we act stupider than normal and are always trying to touch you. then we call when we have nothing to say. some times we walk into walls when you walk by, and we use big words that we have no idea the meaning of. we might try to beat up the puniest guy around just to show we're tough, and although we may only shower when we can smell ourselves we will use hygene products like hair gel when we know we might see you.... so if the guy your thinking about is smart, respects your space, calls only when he has something to say, is articulate, clean and groomed and sensitive enough not to start fights....... he's gay..... and will make a great friend for a faghag!
2006-12-20 16:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no test that can predict whether someone will stray or not. Sorry, but there you go. All that you can rely on is your sense of security and your judge of character. In this case, one or both of the two is making you feel insecure and jealous - maybe you're just not ready for this relationship, or maybe he's given you good reasons and you need to get out.
2006-12-20 16:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dilettante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes that happen people cheat.
does he give you any hints that he is cheating or act kind of weird.
that is the most important fact is trust , if you have a doubt just ask him that question or have somone spy on him i dont agree u do that.
take care
2006-12-20 16:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he says he really loves me more than anything too, been together for 2 years, we're workin together at the same place we're talkin on the phone when we're home but i never tried to be stupid to blv him...you never ever ever can be sure what the hell guys are up to when they're alone...keep lovin him but don't trust him completely...
2006-12-20 16:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about the unknown? Enjoy what you have and feel happy about it. The more you worry the more you question and you are going to mess up the relationship. Relax
2006-12-20 16:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him then ask him if he is seeing anyone other than you. If he says "No" and you don't believe him then you are lying about trusting him.
2006-12-20 16:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋