Here's the situation...a bunch of friends went out bar hopping. I went home with one of the guys we were out with. Well, we were both intoxicated, both into it..but even though I tried all my best tricks he still didn't climax. I wound up leaving, I have seen him once since and it was kind of ackward. We didn't talk about it, I'm not sure how fuzzy the night was for him, etc. I just can't stop thinking about it. I want to try it again, without so much to drink...but don't know exactly how to approach it. I will see him in a couple of weeks as classes start up again. Please give me some suggestions...or thoughts from a mans approach.
2006-12-20 08:33:10 · 10 answers · asked by brevly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Buy a six pack of his favorite beer and wrap it up as a present with a note that reads:
I wonder what us drinking again would lead to?
Love, "your name"
2006-12-20 08:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some experience with this. There is a very fine line between hero and zero. For me, it's about 8 1/2 beers. At 8 beers, you can go for about 45 minutes at full throttle and be a hero. At 9 beers, you get tired of doing it because it doesn't matter what a woman does to me, it's not happening. Believe me when I say this, he wants to do it again and he would think it sexy if you were to bring up the subject. Something like, I really had a good time the other night and suggest you get together again. Try to either not drink so much or drink after, if you want. Don't feel bad about it. Remember, if at first you don't succeed.....
2006-12-20 08:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Charles R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens... It's because of too much alcohol, if he got aroused then that is a good sign, but him not finishing is probably because of the alcohol.
Have you ever had sex and not been fully satisfied? That's how he felt pretty much, it's still fun, its still exciting.
You're efforts will go a long way. We never forget the effort put forth in that type of situation. I think you should wait for the right moment, late at night or at the end of a day. Dress to kill, be sexy, wear perfume and be flirty (blink your eyes a lot when you ask him) and most important, dont get upset if he says no.
Ask, "so are you going to give me an opportunity to finish the job?" Lean in and brush lightley against his manhood.
That'll work. Good luck..
2006-12-20 08:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put: Whiskey D@$k
I have had it happen to me a couple of times where I just had way to much to drink and couldn't climax. Even though we were in every possible position and were doing a lot of foreplay and everything. Just didn't happen.
So don't worry, about that. Just do it again and make sure you leave a little earlier and just don't hold back. :)
(Would be fun to be that guy)
2006-12-20 08:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by offspringkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, too lots liquor will do it each and every time. you already know, i might basically ask him out on a date whilst training initiate back and notice the place it is going from there. do no longer attempt to push it, basically permit issues take a organic direction i'm bi, yet have sworn off adult adult males with the intention to be with the superb person who's now my suitable buddy, better half and spouse. yet I had a matching adventure approximately sixteen years in the past. too lots booze and issues did no longer end the way the two people had was hoping. however the subsequent week we've been given at the same time and joked approximately it and laughed it off. issues DID paintings out the 2nd time!
2016-10-15 08:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes that happens when a guy drinks alot. tell him you had a fun time and want to go out for drinks again if you want another shot. just leave the bar much sooner.
2006-12-20 08:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered you own question.
Use little or preferably no alcohol this time. Not to make excuses, but sometimes a man can not be at his best if he had to much to drink.
Go for round two then make your judgement.
2006-12-20 08:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just tell him that if won't drink so much you will finish what you started?
2006-12-20 09:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey guys dont always climax when they are drunk i know from personal experience that my own girl friend wouldent have sex with me after i had drank because it made her sick that she couldent "get me off"
2006-12-20 08:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur sorry u were drunk but u did like it and u want to try again
2006-12-20 08:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Antonio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋