my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 5 wks ago one question that i really need to no is how long has she not loved me for is it weeks months!!!!!!!! i've tryed to ask her but she will not talk about how she feels it's my first break up and i'm doing ok having a couple of bad days but it helps when you can understand a few things one thing is she is dealing with anarexica and have been told this could of caused the break up any help!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 08:26:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Till you convince yourself she's no longer the same woman you fell in love with.
2006-12-20 08:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by shadycaliber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up a relationship is a serious matter that most people think through for a long time, so I would say she started having thoughts about it a month or more ago.
Don't think anorexia would be a cause for breakup on her end.
She just felt you 2 didn't get along well and were not happy together.
Two way honest communication from the beginning of a relationship helps tremendously. You work things out as you go along over time....... compromising when needed
2006-12-20 16:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good clue would be if you felt some time during your relationship did you feel something didn't feel right or when (if she did) did she start acting different as to a little less loving or distance towards you. If you did not sense any thing different going on then she has been deceiving you and as to how long only she has the answer to that question and if she wont tell you then you need to accept that and just move on. Don't battle your mind in trying to figure it out. Shes gone and not worth your emotions anymore.
2006-12-20 16:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is anorexic she obviously doesn't love herself.
So if that basic self esteem is missing, she can't truly "love " anyone else.
Maybe she didn't love you, but loved the idea of being in love;
Maybe she became uncomfortable with the relationship some time ago, but lacked the courage to tell you,
Maybe she still loves you, but just doesnt want to be with you right now.
No one knows but her; and it's possible she may not even know herself.
It's tough, but if the love is gone, you can't bring it back.
Yes, there are going to be plenty of bad days. It's like a death. you are mourning the death of your realtionship, and you need time to heal. Try not to brood too much on the whys of it - you can really beat yourself up in this way.
2006-12-20 16:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to admit it but u really can't unlove someone. u can stop liking them but u can't unlove them. there will always be a place in ur heart for that person. say if u dated someone for like 2years and u broke up. u might say that u hate them but its not true u love them still. if they get hurt u will be in tears because u care for them. i no that sucks but thats the truth. good luck! :)!
2006-12-20 16:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Margaret W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still in love with my high school sweetheart and it has been 15 years......so does that answer your question
2006-12-20 18:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly32976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well once u "fall in" i don't think u can just "fall out".......u have to "get up and step out", which means u r really trying not to love her
but u can still love someone without loving them romantically....
2006-12-20 16:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Miss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has issues, so you just keep your mind and body very busy!!!!
2006-12-20 16:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's true love.....then forever.
2006-12-20 16:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur heart tells u.
2006-12-20 16:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by Nana B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋