2006-12-20 08:00:20 · 31 answers · asked by klyve88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your child is 5 years old and you can't pay your electric bill one month, would you kill the child?
2006-12-20 08:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st I'd like to say that God has blessed you with a gift that most women can only dream about and you want to abort the baby because of financial difficult? The baby didn't asked to be born and if you and your husband didn't want a baby just yet then you should have been more careful. Where is your Faith in God knowing that HE will make a way out of no way? I don't mean to seem harsh and angry with you because thats not my manner at all. I'm compassionate it because. Someone in my family wants a baby but has never been blessed to have one and here you are talking about having an abortion. It's just sad. You and your husband has to make this judgement call. You can always get help from social service, food stamps, etc. You never know what God has in store for your baby or your family but in the end the choice will be yours to make. Please, pray and ask God to direct your path. I will pray over this situation as well as for financial increase for your family. God Bless you
2006-12-20 08:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that's a very tough question to answer. However, I would not abort the baby instead I would put the child up for adoption. It's just my personal discretion (religion and morality aside) because, to me, I cannot live with myself. The only way I will abort a child if it endangers my life or health. The ultimate question is: Will your husband and you can live with yourself after agreeing to an abortion? That needs to be thought long hard. If no, you can put the child up for adoption. If yes, then you should go ahead and speak to people who you love and trust about the abortion. The ultimate discretion is you and your husband. I wish you the very best in this difficult time.
2006-12-20 08:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by Maria Gallercia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then, why bring the baby in the womb. God has given brain to you. Do you want t be a killer! It seems the definition of morality has changed with the times. Or, man has changed it as it suits to him. Killing is now called abortion because foetus could not take up the shape of a human being!
2006-12-20 12:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Titu66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a child is a blessing. There is nothing that you can not handle as long as you and your husband have family support along with goverment help as there are many agencies that can help you until you get situated. Trust me. I was in a similar situation and thought of the impossible. My family helped. My husband increased hours at work only to find out it all was alot easier than it seemed. I am glad I made the decision to roll with the punches. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-20 09:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by angel eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
This is 21St century and such deals are possible.
Keep it or give for adoption and get some relief from a well to do needy couple without squeezing them dry. Even paying them back later with thanks.
See a good lawyer, make a deal, with visiting rights. Your baby will have support of four adults.
Do every thing in good faith and intentions and have no regrets about adoption.
2006-12-20 08:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!! You should have thought about your financial situation before conceiving. That is not this child's fault. If you can't afford to raise it then maybe giving the child up for adoption. There are so many couples that would love to have a baby and cannot.
2006-12-20 08:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by tn2vegas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't believe in abortion.If you are having financial problems try visiting your local health department for prenatal care.Also dhs ( department of human services) offer insurance to low income families along with other services like free milk for baby, food stamps, insurance for baby and there are also programs that will assist you in rent.You may want to look into adoption.
2006-12-20 08:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl4300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
if you can't keep the baby, you can put him up for adoption.
if you don't want to go through all those hassles, you can always have the baby, and take him to a police station, fire department or emergency room and drop him off. there will be no questions asked. you can even have your husband or a friend take the child.
whatever you do, do not take away the child's chance at life. that's not fair at all.
2006-12-20 08:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by john_deeregirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. if you are pregnant you can get lots of financial support from the government. there is the wic program that gives money for food and formula until the child is six years old. you may not want to but you can get food stamps as well as cash and bill assistance from your state. check out your state's website or you local fia (family independency agency) office.
2006-12-20 08:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by PreciousLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BABYS ARE HUMANS AND LIFE MONEY CAN BE PROMBLES BUT THERE IS ALL KINNDA HELP WITH THE BABY TRY WIC OR SOME STATE HELP ASK FOR HELP FROM PARENTS ANYTHING EXCEPT ABORTION WE DIDNT HAVE A POT TO PISS IN WHEN OUR FIRST SON WAS BORN AND NO INSURANDE WE SET UP A PAYMENT PLAIN AND PIAD A LIL AT A TIME MY HUSBAND TOOK ON A SECOND JOB AND I STARTRED TO BABY SIT AT HOME FOR A LIL EXTRA AND THINGS WORKED OUT GD BLESS
2006-12-20 08:05:15 · answer #11 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋