What is up with my sister in law?We live 2 houses away from each other but yet we never see or speak to each other for a month or more at a time and then all of a sudden she emails me 28 times in the run of a day with pictures,jokes and jibber jabber.Our relationship has always been love or hate mainly because ever since i met my husband she has been jealous of me.She will say catty things to me and totally ignore me if one of her friends are around and then out of the blue call me or email me like nothing happened.Am i just suppose to forget all the stuff she has said and done to me and welcome her with open arms or tell her to get lost?She is a very insecure person and likes to make people think that she is so in control of her life and that no one is as happy as her and her husband.They spend 90% of there time trying to keep up with everyone.That would make anyone unhappy.Does anyone have any idea what the heck is her problem?Serious answers only please!
2006-12-20 07:51:24 · 7 answers · asked by Sassyface 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
seriously, just be decent...she's got problems, you can see them, any decent person would try to help her and you can help her by setting the example of what is good and classy and sohisticated...she'll see you're a good person and she'll stop treating you like that....there's no need to continue the cycle of meanness and cattiness, of bad manners and uneducated-ness (i make up words)...just be happy, treat her well and God will bless you
2006-12-20 07:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by ejuju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to be like she wants to be the center of attention, all the time. But give her a chance talk to her, e-mail her back, if she starts being distant again. Just sit down and have a serious talk, tell her how you feel. But don't hate, you are a family now. There's some people you just have to learn to live with. But if she is the kind that just likes to criticize and make you feel bad, your not obligated to talk to her or taker her s***.
2006-12-20 16:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by FairyNice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow.....she is trying to be a good neighbor.
U got to think more positive and see the positive side instead of the negative in this sister in law.
Send her a card back and have more cookouts together.
Life is short, lets not whine or complain.
2006-12-20 15:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know they say misery loves company, so if you understand that she is miserable, then you can sort of feel sorry for her and be a bigger person by not acting out. As they say in the south, "handle her with a long-handled spoon". Be cordial whenever she feels like initiating contact, but other than that, let her be. Acting like this will tick her off just as badly as you cussing her out.
2006-12-20 15:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by breadbreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only serious answer I can give you to the above information is to go and visit her and have a long talk with her. Take her one of her favorite foods when you go for the visit.
2006-12-20 15:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you! If you don't have to see her that often you should be feeling good. Ignore her dumb *** emails 7 don't deal with her all together if you don't feel like it! Cause guess what I got news for you you ain't got to!
2006-12-20 16:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think when she has no one around her she talk you and act friendly but deep down she jealous from you so stay away from her kind and ignore her email and phone call ,she the kind who will slab you on your back without you knowing it, and always will make fun of you in front of her friends
2006-12-20 15:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋