My boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 month i love him and he loves me, he ask if i was ready to give it up (sex).
2006-12-20 07:51:23 · 23 answers · asked by Taykay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you?..if you are under 18..I advise you to stay virgin as long as possible because this guy might get the sex and bounce....if he loves you, then he'll wait as long as it takes for you to stay less...if he's so serious, yall should get Aids tests and checked out at the clinic...buy rubbers...go thru parenting seminar or get information on teen pregnancy and VD...make sure you get on the pill if you're not...which means talking to your parents...sex is a grown up decision...15 minutes of pleasure could result in 18 years of servitude.
2006-12-20 08:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most guys wont even wait for 3 months to pass w/out trying to get their gurl to have sex with them. Nobody knows when the time is right for you but yourself. How old are you, how old is he? If you know that you love him and you know that he loves you and he treats you good then go for it. Just use protection, no matter what he says or what you think, use protection because you do not want to chance the risk of getting an STD. I think that is really good that he ask you and does not just try and go for it. If you don't feel ready tell him you don't and if he loves you as much as he says he does then he will respect that and wait for you to be ready.
2006-12-20 07:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on you.. Are you ready? Lets say things go wrong and you end up pregnant .... would he stand by your side? Or just leave before you get a chance to finish your sentence?
If you are ready then go for it....REMEMBER to use protection!!!
I dont want to come back in a few weeks to a question posted by you asking: " I had sex with my bf of 3 months and now Im pregnant....WHAT should I do? How do I tell the guy? he doesnt talk to me any more....etc....etc....you get the idea..!!!
2006-12-20 07:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f*ck no!! When two mature people are ready to have sex, they dont talk about it, it happens. This is a sign that he isnt ready for sex either. Im 23 years old and I still wont have sex until I want to. That takes a long time. Guys hold you more valuble and have more respect for you when you make the rules. If he doesnt like it, then you dont want a guy like that to take your virginity anyway. I know youve seen the movies and commercials where the guy tells the girl he loves her so he can get her im bed, well, he is the reason they made those commercials and movies. He sound like he doesnt really like you for you, but instead because he wants to get you in bed. DUMP HIM!
2006-12-20 07:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of good reasons to wait. It will definately change your relationship. 3 months doesn't seem like that long, especially if you have not had sex before.
I recommend you wait until you, yourself, are sure you are ready.
Good luck!!
2006-12-20 07:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by happytone365 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, and you have been together for three months -- if you are ready, enjoy sex. Sex is a beautiful thing -- make sure you use protection.
2006-12-20 07:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to take care of a baby, that's the real question. Remember things happen, even if contraception is used. Think before you leap, you could ruin your future.
2006-12-20 07:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by bigbro3006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't give it up. Your not old enough. I can tell that because your asking us idiots for advice that you should know in your heart. He is not the one, yet. Maybe in a couple of months you will know better.
2006-12-20 07:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not have sex until u are absolutly sure. and i dont mean saying yes when ur horny. make sure u really love him too b/c three months is not a long time.
2006-12-20 07:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooooooo!!!! do not "give it up" if you do that you are giveing up your whole live. just think about it first.what if you get pregnet? r u ready for that? there is always a chance to get pregnet or u can get aids or HIV. is it worth it?
2006-12-20 07:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by kirstin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋