A guy that I have been seeing off and on told a friend of mine that I scare him. What the heck does that mean???
2006-12-20 07:49:05 · 31 answers · asked by Suzieq4855 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are coming on way too strong!! stop calling him- wait for him to call you. he will miss you once you chill out a little bit!!
2006-12-20 07:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Laurennnn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean anything...but I usually find that when men say that they mean I'm being too assertive for their taste. I don't do that often, but when I'm feeling deserving, men tend to think I'm controlling and find that scary. Because they feel they may not be able to live up to my expectations. Of course there are guys out there who find that a totally sexy quality in a woman.
2006-12-20 07:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you come on too strong. Are you too needy? Clingy? Opinionated? Loud? Are you too domineering? I suggest you ask others who know you to be honest and tell you what he might mean. None of us here know you and cant be specific which is what you need. Just dont get mad at your friend if you dont like what you hear. You need honestly not flattery.
2006-12-20 07:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be many meanings to that, but unfortunately for you they are all bad.
You may be crowding him or you may be to intense or too serious. Either you should lay off him and calm down a bit, or the guy may just be a weeny.
2006-12-20 07:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That means that you are too much woman for him! He is scared because he doesn't feel in control around you, that seems like a good thing to me. More power to ya girl!!!
2006-12-20 07:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by ball_courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the fatal attraction type, psycho girlfriend from Hell?
Or, if not perhaps he really likes you and could or is falling in love with you? Only you know for sure.
Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-20 07:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be he is not ready for a committment, and he thinks you are. Maybe you are so beautiful, he thinks someone will take you away from him. You want to know the real answer - ask him.
2006-12-20 07:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Hammer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont bring the hacksaw on your next date....otherwise he's using that as an excuse not to develop a relationship.
2006-12-20 07:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by bigbro3006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself what have you done to scare him?? I would just ask him in person what he means by that. you might have been alittle aggressive towards him or might have said something to scare him off? you need to communicate with him.
2006-12-20 07:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by supersteveee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be taking things a little too fast and he is scared of commitment.
2006-12-20 07:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by teresasays 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends if he's being sarcastic or not. I joke around with girls a lot and half the stuff i say i don't mean.
2006-12-20 07:51:26 · answer #11 · answered by Adam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋