2006-12-20 07:48:12 · 26 answers · asked by Ola C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If it's going to be hurtful, why bother?
If you really don't care, why bother?
I wouldn't go, and anyone who wouldn't understand is a schmuck.
2006-12-20 07:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bugmän 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Thank GOD you have not have been given custody of those babies. It sounds like your ex's fiance is a extra loving parent than you ever would be. You sound like a jealous wretch! Wow. you do not even choose your babies! a minimal of your ex's fiance does! for sure his fiance is already of their lives, extra suitable than you're so close your catch and not in any respect have babies returned! you are going to be on my own continually and that i think of the best component to your ex to do is carry those young ones as though his fiance is their actual mom. babies are a blessing, God's presents. and you're surely not deserving of that!
2016-12-30 17:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should have walked away from the person a while ago and never returned. If it is awkward still, it means you have not moved on and need to find a buddy and get drunk that night instead. Move on to your new life in the morning.
2006-12-20 07:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was thoughtless of them to invite you. You're now stuck with the choice of going and being hurt or staying home and being hurt. Be glad you aren't marrying this guy and go out that night have some fun.
2006-12-20 08:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by Debra D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're in a relationship with someone now, I think you should go and show him you've moved on. If you're single, in my opinion, I wouldn't go. Especially if you still have some sort of feelings for him. Good luck :) Hope everything goes well for you in the future :)
2006-12-20 07:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about this person I would say go but sit in the back and bring some kleenex. If you really care about this person you would want them to be happy and they want you for their support. However if it seems overwelming I wouldnt go but send a nice card! Hope this helps you!
2006-12-20 07:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very fact that you are asking here means that you are unsure. i think that gives you your answer. Don't go. you will not be happy. It is acceptable to decline a wedding invitation. As you are evidently thinking about this quite deeply, I am sure you can decline gracefully.
2006-12-20 11:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by skip 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is usually considered inappropriate to invite exes to a wedding. I would respectfully decline, and probably not even send a gift.
2006-12-20 09:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by JenV 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it will be painful don't go. He probably just invited you to rub your nose in it. He sucks a$$ big time!!! But....if he still has enough feelings towards you to seek revenge he may still feel for you.
2006-12-20 13:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by RedDreads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good looking guy with you I would so try to get him jealous and show him I dont care.
2006-12-20 07:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by jdn85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I wouldn't go. You'll draw attention to yourself. . .negative or positive. . .and you're going to put yourself through the wringer. Unless you and your ex dated for a very long time and you're still good friends. . .make alternative plans. Go and do something fun with friends or make a new date.
It's time to move on, honey ;)
2006-12-20 07:52:31 · answer #11 · answered by YuckItUp 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋