he's 25 and im 16.. he hugs me a lot and we even held hands once.. he tells me im talented a lot.. but he just got married a few months ago.. but he never brings her anywhere its like he hiding her from the world. should i go for it?
2006-12-20 07:43:30 · 21 answers · asked by christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah but hes really really hot and we have so much in common and i think im already in love with him which is whats so frustrating
2006-12-20 08:01:33 · update #1
i mean would it be so bad to just hook up w/ him once and no one will ever find out?
2006-12-20 08:06:59 · update #2
first of all, you are 16 and hes married, that should be reason enough. But let me tell you about guys like him. He will be willing to mess around with you because you would have to keep it a secret. That would be good for him because he could be with the woman he loves and he could have the girl he lust over. he will tell you everything you want to hear and eventually you will fall in love with him. he'll tell you hes unhappy in his marriage and that one day hes going to leave her, but he wont. you will make it to easy for him to have his cake and eat it too. you will never mean as much to him as his wife does because even though he'll be messing around with you, he wont respect you. He knows that girls like you (the ones who mess with married men) dont deserve any respect, your only good for one thing.
2006-12-20 07:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. When a guy is already married, the worst thing a girl can do is mess with that relationship. He obviously doesn't have the same feelings u have towards him if he's married to someone else. Sounds like he's a skeez ball anyways. stay away from him...he's a little too old.
2006-12-20 15:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. What if your husband was flirting with an underage girl? How would you feel? He's taken, that means hands off. You are underage and any relationship you think you might have with him is only going to cause trouble for you, him and his wife. Watch out! Someday she could be you.
2006-12-20 15:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by waney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry, but most of these people are right. guys like to think with their tesacles, and he hasnt learned to curve the urge. you never said you really had feelings from him and he is probibly just trying to get in you, and he just got married so im pretty sure his feelings havnt changed. give it up, sorry. anyways, frankly 16 is real young and you arent about to marry him halfway through highschool and you would just destroy his marriage if anything came of it
2006-12-20 15:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by slightly confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop seeing him because:
1. He's married.
2. He's a legal adult and he's messing with a minor. Which is considered stautory rape here in California if you do any more than hold hands.
2006-12-20 15:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from married men! Nothing but trouble can come from it.
He is just trying to use you. Sorry, but he sounds like a rat. Find someone nice, closer to your own age (like 17 or 18).
2006-12-20 15:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy Eagle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone in your own age category. It's normal for teenagers to have crushes on older guys. Don't go for it because he could get into trouble for it. And he's off-limits because he's married.
2006-12-20 15:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey...you are a child...sorry but that is how he looks at you. I am sure you are very cute and a fun diversion...but you can't satisfy him the way he'll need to be (and I don't mean sexually cause you could satisfy him that way I am sure). If you did go for it, he would probably break your heart and he would ruin his young marriage...its a lose, lose situation. Stay away...in fact, RUN away!
2006-12-20 15:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by Trevor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the very fact that he is hiding his wife already prove that he can't be trusted. he wouldn't have married his wife if there is nothing right? the fact that he can do it to his wife might also mean he can do the same to you. my advise? drop and drop it immediately. you are still young. trust me. there are other fishes in the sea.
2006-12-20 15:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by ruth tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. 1) He's married and off limits. 2) It's illegal. 3) There's something wrong with him.
2006-12-20 15:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by Claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋