Ok me and my boyfriend broke up a month ago. We broke up because he put me into a lot of debt. Anyway, we have been talking everyday since the break up. He kept wanting me to take him back, but I said no because he moved in with another girl. He just recently moved out and now living with his uncle. He met another girl on the internet and they see eachother almost everyday and they tell eachother i love you but he claims they are just friends. Well i saw him last night and we got back together. He says he wouldn't be where he is now if it wasn't for me. I asked him to stop talking to her, but he is making it very clear that he wants to stay friends with her. What does everyone think I should do about this? And do girl and guy friends that just met 2 weeks ago say I love you? Please help!
2006-12-20 07:40:17 · 23 answers · asked by KAB128 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If accordingly to him, you are not important enough not to dump his internet gf, then you should not bother with him anymore.
Don'yt you think you deserve better than this???
Good luck
2006-12-20 07:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kristina, 1st of all you don't ever allow a man to cause you to go into debt. He is using you and love doesn't mean a thing in this case but it sure is costing you alot. No, sweetie don't be a fool and take this jerk back, He doesn't even respect you enough to listen to what you are asking him to do. I'm a romantic so it is possible to be in love at 1st sight but if he can't respect you to leave this girl alone then why are you buggin about being with him. You see for youself what kind of person this guy is. Why would you want to get yourself back into debt? You can't be that hard up for a man especially someone like this guy. I mean God has given you plenty of warning signs so why would you put yourself back thru the hassel? You are an adult and yes everyone needs someone to love but what kind of love does he have for you if you have gone into debt for you and he has moved on. His uncle is probably tired of his sorry a s s and wants him out of his house. Don't be the fool. GOD GAVE YOU 5 SENSES AND DON'T LET THIS GUY USE YOU AND GET OVER ON YOU.
2006-12-20 15:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend is using you for his own gains and can't be trusted. As long as you continue to see him he will continue to keep you in debt. As for this other girl, by the way your talking, sounds to me it's more than just friends. Is he worth all the hassle again?
Dump him. Move on. You can do a lot better.
2006-12-20 15:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by knightlibby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb, he has already put in in debt and can not even afford his own apartment. I would loose the looser and get my debts paid off. Don't allow him to use you for anything else, he will have you in bankruptcy court if you keep it up. And of course you do not fall in love and tell someone you love them in two weeks. And the fact that he is holding on to this girl should be a very huge red flag to you. Get rid of him. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-20 15:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop this dude flat and make him move back in with uncle.
He is a waste of your time and will put u in more debt.
Sounds like he is trying to get all your powers, how about just stop keepin in touch with him and move on to a guy that will treat u like a princess
2006-12-20 15:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just the fact that you're asking means that you know what you should do...dude, the guy put you in debt, do you really think he won't take advantage of you ever again? that's probably why he wants you back, TO KEEP ON USING YOU...let it go...step back and take a look, he's been with two girls since he broke up with you, A MONTH AGO, pppllleeeaaassseeee, why do you want someone like that??!?!?!?!?
2006-12-20 15:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by ejuju 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For ONCE, I'm gonna have to say that I agree with every single answer that you have received regarding your question. The only thing that I could add would be, WHY DO YOU WANT TO PLAY MOMMY TO THIS BOY? He's obviously just lookin' for his mommy to take care of him. He's got issues & I think you just might have a few of your own. If it feels good...DO IT!
2006-12-21 21:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. You sound like a smart girl, he has already put you into dept once I would find someone nice. And if he really loved you he wouldnt need his internet friend or any other girls
2006-12-20 15:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jaclyn K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** with that boy...if he loves you he will try to do what you asked him...i really don`t like that kinds of boys....a girl+a boy meeting everyday for 2 weeks??hm..deapends...but i sure you that can exist a true friendship between a girl and a boy...but if their met on the Internet..then I can`t tell that anymore.(I met my boyfriend on the Internet..first we were "good" friend..but now...we love each-other)...good luck
2006-12-20 15:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks and saying tat i love u tat is so wrong me and ma bf went out twice 4 about 5mouths each and we r just now saying tat we lov each other. move on and get u a men tat lovs u and dup this guy bc he is just plan @ss dirt. he thinks tat he can have u bc he would like 2 get in ur plants. leave him NOW!!
2006-12-20 15:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by LilTee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋