I really like this guy, and he likes me too. only problem is that he goes to a different school now, and his parents don't let him date. I don't get to see him that often, but when I do see him, everything's great...he acts like wer'e actually together. He tells me he loves me, and is so sweet but he never calls to make plans to hang or anything or even just to talk! I've called him a few times, but he doesn't return my calls, so besides the times when we randomly see eachother, we never see eachother. when we see eachother he always apologizes for not calling....It's just so wierd. I don't know if I should stick with him and see if things get better, or maybe I should just move on. please help me!
2006-12-20 07:36:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound pretty young. If so, guys at that age TEND to not be as attached to a girl as she to him.
I'd talk to him.
And in your mind set a time limit for how long you will allow yourself to continue to chase him.
If nothing changes, cut the umbilical cord. :)
Good luck!
2006-12-20 07:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you with this type of situtation I would let go. If he can't return your calls and goes to a different school the best thing to do is let go. You will find someone else. I know it is hard but you have to. There is a saying "Let It Go" if it returns then it is yours if not then it was not meant to be. Or something like that. Move On
2006-12-20 15:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Andie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, I think you need to follow your heart. If you feel something for this guy then hang in there and see what happens, but give it a time limit...you don't want to wait on someone that only wants you when it is convenient for him...talk to him and ask him why he doesn't put forth more effort on your part. wish you luck.
2006-12-20 15:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by MARY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound way too young to be worried about that kinda thing. just hang out and have fun with the guys at your school.
make sure not to forget about your friends...guys can ruin a lot of friendships if you let them.
2006-12-20 15:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by john_deeregirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...I don't think either of you know what love is yet. You like him and enjoy being around him, etc, but love is SO much more than that. Be careful with using that word too liberally!!
2006-12-20 15:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Trevor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say to let him go. he's just playing with you're emotions why waste the time on someone who doesn't even bother to call? find someone who can be there for you who can talk to you when you need him to listen. you deserve better. good luck.
2006-12-20 15:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too young to be stressing about these kinds of things, that's what you're twenties are for....be a kid, have fun, do dorky things, don't think about boys yet, they take up too much time and the frank truth is that most of them aren't worth the time you spend thinking about them...
2006-12-20 15:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by ejuju 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on, he doesn't like you. He is only nice to you for one reason..... Men are dogs. Find a boy that is into you all the time.
2006-12-20 15:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I think that makes the biggest difference! And how old is he would be an important part as well
2006-12-20 15:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by mouthygirl20012001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on what exactly are you waiting for?something that's not there oviously
2006-12-20 15:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by pumpkinbugaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋