i think dateing a bi girl is gross i hear the same thing everyday "man thats hot why dont you like that".last year i went out with this girl for a year i found she was bi i dumped her *** she cryed but i didnt care and i still dont.i dont know why other guys like it i think their ****** up in the head.only my dad,my grand father,my cusin and my best friend agree with me.i have a girl friend now she is not bi i dont need 2 girls to make me happy.am i the only guy besides my family that thinks this?
2006-12-20 07:36:24 · 14 answers · asked by god_shadow5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you. My boyfriend strongly agrees with you. We have never understood the fascination with lesbians/bisexual girls...it's disgusting. I would never date a bisexual guy.
There aren't enough guys out there like you and my boyfriend who feel this way. :)
2006-12-20 08:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by argylemoose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I feel like you have a handful of problems yourself, but I'm not going to judge you, I wouldn't do that. But I am going to point out a few things if you don't mind. You know what? Even if you do mind I'm going to point them out. lol Now there is a falicy in your statement that "I don't need 2 girls to make me happy." Just because she is bisexual, doesn't mean you have to deal with two women. It just means that she could fall in love with a man OR a woman. Now, she chose you and since you judged her so quickly you dumped her. There is nothing to say she didn't love you. If she is going to be true to you, then she will be true either with men OR women. True is true and that's that. Also, since she did like you and I'm assuming respected you, why don't you think you could have helped her? You could have changed her from being bi-sexual if you feel so strongly about it. Religious people tend to avoid/shun people that they feel sin or even do things they don't like. Jesus as the bible says, didn't shun people, he helped them. Not that I expect you to make miracles happen, but you would at least be a human being about it. You just showed her one of the BIGGEST sins on this planet. Discrimination. which is a "politically correct" word for hate. You dumped her because she is bi-sexual. Why? Why don't you help her at the least...why? Because your self righteous, insensitive, selfish and you hate for the wrong reasons. I feel that you should never hate a person, you might hate things they do or say, but not the person. But I'm sure you'll let this go in one ear and out the other as you probably assume I'm screwed up and you couldn't possibly be. Well, my friend, good luck in life..and you could have missed out on an outstanding human being and the love of your life. If you hate her so much, send her to me and I'll treat her with respect and passion and she won't ever see another person, be it man or woman, again.
2006-12-20 08:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For fun,it isn't,but relationship reasons it is gross,because if your have a girlfriend or wife or any commitment it should be strictly two people you and her. Otherwise,she doesn't really care for you & just think that your her little sex toy to enhance her bi-sexual relationship. Just stand up for what you believe in,don't break your beliefs ever,not even under pressure. Good Luck~!
2006-12-20 07:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are not wrong in your desire to have a monogamous relationship with a woman. However, as you might imagine, there are quite a few people who have various ideas about attraction to other people. You cannot fault someone because they like blondes, or redheads...but you certainly can go after the relatonships you enjoy!
2006-12-20 07:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I mean, i realize it quite is degrading, yet seem on the porn ladies. that's what adult adult males like. no longer fat in any respect, yet truthfully some curves. You in no way see their bones protruding. yet do no longer shape your physique into what you think of adult adult males will like. it quite is what you like that concerns. we gained't all appear as if porn stars. it may be fairly disgusting and uninteresting if we did.
2016-10-15 07:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't gross, but it can be a bit complicated so yeah, you're not the only one who thinks it isn't a good idea. you don't know if you're coming or going that type of a situation ...
2006-12-20 07:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is your opinion and you can date whoever you want to. some guys likes that (threesomes and stuff) and some don't. I believe you are a normal dude!
2006-12-20 07:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by omycarrasquillo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's gross, unless your girl has another girl while being with you...
2006-12-20 07:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by aloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is so great about you that makes you think you can judge her past?
2006-12-20 07:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing gross about it. Women are beautiful
2006-12-20 07:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋