Just this week I noticed two guys staring at my boobs NUMEROUS TIMES! A geeky kid and my crush. The geek looked at my feet, to my boobs, to my face, and my crush kinda just snuck peeks or whatever. My shirt is kind tight, but isn't revealing at all. I mean, I'm 13, so are guys interested in boobs yet? Also, are B boobs big? SERIOUSLY WONDERING!
SOME QUESTIONS:
~First of all, does that mean that my crush might like me?
~Why do guys stare at girls boobs?
~How can I get them to stop?
~AND will I get used to it? It makes me very unconfertable.
THANKS
2006-12-20 06:58:51 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by wearing a tight shirt you are calling attention to your boobs. They are probably staring because they are naturally curious and they remember when you didn't have boobs. Now you are becoming more of a woman to them and their perception is changing.
2006-12-20 07:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys start becoming intersted in boobs at 12. I've been there not too long ago (I'm almost 15). If telling them to stop doesn't work, you can say something like, "Oh, are these your eyeballs? I found them in my cleavage." Also, even if the shirts aren't revealing, take it easy with the tight shirts, which make boobs look bigger.
A B cup isn't that big, it's a normal size for your age.
Your crush might like you, or he might like your boobs. If he takes an interest in your personality, that's a different story.
2006-12-20 07:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by wildgrace 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) It means only that your crush likes boobs. A good way to see if he really likes you and respects you would be to ask him to stop.
2) They have not yet to (and may never) learn self-control. Breasts are beautiful and endlessly fascinating to guys but it is NOT cool to stare.
3) Tell them to firmly and loudly to "Stop staring at my boobs!". This works especially well if there are other people around. ;-)
4) Unfortunately, in reality, you will have to get used to some amount of this.
There are a lot of guys who are simply jerks and will not only stare but make inappropriate comments and will even grab you.
If this happens at school, tell someone in authority, there should be policies in place to protect you from this.
I am sorry that I don't have a better answer for you and hope there are some ladies out there who can be of more help.
You deserve to be treated with dignity.
2006-12-20 07:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Steven H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh god, you have no idea how I feel. I too am 13 and I am a 34F. I'm not overweight either, guys stare at them, hug me, try to touch them, the list is endless. I've even had one of them bury their face in them once. To answer your question - almost all men, of any age love boobs. Seeing as these guys are teenagers however, they're a lot hornier than regular men. xo
2016-03-29 01:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~First of all, does that mean that my crush might like me?
It might. It might also mean he likes your boobs. The two don't have to be related. Make sure he likes all of you and not just a body part.
~Why do guys stare at girls boobs?
We like them. Oh yeah, we like them.
~How can I get them to stop?
Only by wearing something that doesn't show them off. You mentioned your shirt was tight, but not revealing. Tight may not reveal the flesh, but tight is still revealing. It reveals shape.
~AND will I get used to it? It makes me very unconfertable.
No. Probably not. Maybe you'll learn to ignore it. Maybe you won't. That part is up too you.
2006-12-20 07:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"I mean, I'm 13, so are guys interested in boobs yet?"
Depends on the guy but probably by that age, yes.
"First of all, does that mean that my crush might like me?"
It means he's a typical teen. Trust me, he's staring just as hard at other girls.
"Why do guys stare at girls boobs?"
The evolutionary/psychological reason is that large breasts are thought to have, at one time, been symbolic of a woman who would be able to feed her children well.
The modern reason would have to be because it's fun. ;)
"How can I get them to stop?"
Short of catching him doing it and saying something to him to embarrass him slightly I don't think there's much you can do.
"AND will I get used to it? It makes me very unconfertable."
I don't know if you'll get used to it as I'm male. If it's making you uncomfortable though you should ask him to stop. Realize that he's going through puberty so it's likely not going to be easy for him. Keep reminding him that it makes you uncomfortable if you have to.
"THANKS"
No problem.
2006-12-20 07:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Digital Haruspex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 12 but i know how you feel.my friend has almost grown her boobs to full size and had her mortal enemy(A guy) stared down into her shirt.ANd your crush might be liking only your boobs. he also might be a pervert. guys stare at girls boobs because they are stupid, listen to movies with guys staring at girls boobs as a bad example, and at some point as a fat old baby calling for their mother and living with her. to stop them either tell agrown up that is a girl because it is totally uncomferatable to talk to a guy, punch him in the nose, kick him in the nuts, or any other weak spot. dont get used to it . if they don't stop, KICK HIS A**
2006-12-20 07:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by dancefor8 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna try to answer all of your questions. Guys are always interested in boobs. B boobs are big for your age. Your crush might like you, but make sure he likes you for you and not your body. Guys are attracted to things that make you not like them, boobs being one. You can't get them to stop, so just dress tasteful and finally, you will get used to it.
2006-12-20 07:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
boys will be boys.
Us guys stare cause what we see is a turn on. And even if your crush stares it doesnt mean he likes out affectionately.
As for them to stop....they probably wont. As for getting used to it...hopefully you will, but it is kinda rude to to not look at a girl's face.
You can always buy a shirt that says "my face is up here" and has an arrow pointing up. but even with that people stare.
well uncomfy as it seems it happens too much. i say look for a guy who could care less about a girl's baggage?
good luck with that anyway.
2006-12-20 07:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by Hideo Okino 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well the geeky guy is getting pretty excited lol youre probably in middle school right? i think the 8th grade? well they stare at you cause the 13 year ols girls are the oldest in the whole school, and of course a 12 yr old are not gonna have thjem that big. lol you cant make them stop! its the hormones!!lol until you get to high school thenn all the 9th grade boys will look at the seniors, like me lol but yeah, you'll get used to it, i know how you feel but dont let it bother you its normal.i hope i helped :>
2006-12-20 07:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋