This guy I've liked for a while gave me his phone number. No guy has ever given me his phone number before. I want to call him but not too early, I don't want him to think I'm obsessive. I can't talk well on the phone either and I get nervous and freaked out when I'm around him. I have no idea what to say or when to call him. The only good thing is he kissed me on the cheek after he gave it to me. So I'm pretty sure he likes me. He's so confident too that it intimidates me and I'm so scared I'll mess up. There is no way I can get myself to call him. But all my friends say I should call him today or tomorrow. I don't even know enough about him to talk to him. Plus I'm in high school and winter break just started. He's leaving for the break so I'm afraid his feelings will diminish over the break.
2006-12-20 06:54:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me friend suggested that I text him? Would that be ok?
2006-12-21 00:15:17 · update #1
Call him! Every instinct of yours wants to call him, yet you just can't spike up the courage. Be more open and be yourself. Don't be intimidated by him; he's just a guy and you don't need to fuss. If you mess up, then you mess up. Who cares? It's not like you'll wet your pants everytime you DO make a mistake. Just call him to say hi and chat with him for a little while.
2006-12-20 06:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by i6am6satan6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I think that if you really like him, and it sounds like you do, you should give him a call. I get nervous on the phone too, so if you are worried about that you could always think of something to say before you call him. If worse comes to worse just call him to say hi and wish him happy holidays! I am definite that you should call him though, whats the worst thing that could happen?
Hope this helps!
2006-12-20 06:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by sussdudette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are right...call him today or tomorrow. If you never give it a shot you'll never know. Just calm yourself down before you do to help with your nervousnes...water is great for that and you can sip it the whole time you are talking to him. Don't worry if his feeling go away over the break...you have his cell # and you call him anytime!! So do it :).
good luck.
2006-12-20 06:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call him either tonight or tomorrow and ask him to go out before he leaves and maybe you can even ask him to call you while he's away so you can get to know him and also keep in touch so you can tell if he does still like you or not.
2006-12-20 07:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Cait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him and start with a what's up, something will lead up after that. He gave you his number for a reason, don't be so scared cuz the hard part is already over.
2006-12-20 06:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by headstr8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him that you don't have a lot of time to talk, but that you know he's going on vacation, and you hope he has fun. Ask him if he has caller id and if he says yes, tell him he can give you a call when he gets back. Then make up some excuse and tell him you have to go now, and will talk to him when he gets back.
2006-12-20 06:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just sit down and get up the nerve to call him, and then after u get that over and get him on the phone it really wont be as hard as u think its going to be..but good luck, an dkeep calling him, and talking to him, so his feelings about you wont change.
2006-12-20 06:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by I love a troublemaker! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maximum adult adult males call me the following day. some dont % to look too desperate so as that they wait approximately 3 days. from now on than that and that i could say he's probable no longer that into you. i in my opinion think of that if the guy does not call the very next day which they often do.
2016-12-11 12:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him TONIGHT
tell him to have a fun trip and ask him if he wants to hang out after he gets back!!!!
you better not delay girl!
call him tonight! by 7:00
GOOD LUCK
just be cool, guys dont really like to talk on the phone either so dont stress out about it. if he says he wants to hang out when he gets back give him you rnumber and tell him to call you when he is back in town!
2006-12-20 06:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay what you have to do is wait awhile, or else it looks bad.... And when you do call him just act like yourselve.. Guys hate when girls act fake.. Dont worry if its true love, he wont forget about it over a 2 week break
2006-12-20 06:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋