I have a boyfriend and he's a big guy,6ft3in 375lbs (I LOVE big men)and I told him he looks JUST FINE the way he is,but he still insists on going to the gym to get more muscles and lose weight.Why do you guys do that?GEEZ,I have 44G cups and he loves them but I aint gonna run off to get a breast reduction anytime soon! If your girl likes you the way you are,why are you persistant in changing anyway?
2006-12-20 06:38:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually he's more muscle then fat,has a bit of a belly but like I said I'm fine with that
2006-12-20 06:47:48 · update #1
Yup,yup Snikt,it's all natural,but I don't have any back problems,occassional back pains but thats it and I've gotten used to those!
2006-12-20 07:02:18 · update #2
I workout when I get bored, mabey that's it or worse, he could have some self perception issues.
2006-12-20 06:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
His need for change is not because of you. His need for change is internal. If he doesn't feel good in his own skin or if he wants to avoid health issues in the future he will keep trying to loose weight/gain muscle. Now, if you plan to break up if he loses weight and changes save him some trouble and let him know. So, no man in his right mind is gonna ask you to get rid of your 44G's especially if they are all natural. However, if you developed back problems or other breast related health issues as you get older you might need a reduction. He would be wrong if he told you not to get it done.
A little back pain now could mean baaaaaad problems later. Play it safe and get a check up.
2006-12-20 14:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't feel like he's changing, he feels like he's improving. Also, if he's going to the gym and just pumping weights and not doing too much cardio, he won't lose his bulk it will just be replaced by muscle. Don't worry a guy his size isn't going to lose too much...because of his size, I doubt much is fat anyway.
2006-12-20 14:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Hope this helps.
2006-12-21 01:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am 6'4 342lbs and girls like to punch me in the belly when i walk by if i lose weight i am going to miss being hit in the stomach! They also like the fact that I can pick them up with ease so i like my weight!
2006-12-26 10:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dominique(G-9) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at 375 he feels fats so he wants to feel better about himself and he does that by going to the gym. Besides its healthy so relax
2006-12-20 14:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way towards my boyfriend. He says I have a beautiful body but still I wish I had bigger breasts, wider hips, and a bigger butt. I guess it's just a self-image problem.
2006-12-20 14:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not about you or what you want or your girlfriend its about him that's what he wants for himself. its like what makes you happy? for example lets say the thing that makes you happy is going to the movies, maybe he doesnt like that and vice versa. its just what he likes doing. I workout as well and my girlfriend says that I look fine the way I am but workingout for me is spiritual and it makes me very happy and I'm doing this for myself and I think he might feel the same way.
2006-12-20 14:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by supersteveee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's related to his health. I don't think 375 is a healthy weight for a man of any height. Think of it this way: If you can lose 10% of your body weight, you'll realize significant improvements in your overall health. Please support him!
2006-12-20 14:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by rustyshackleford001 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Even if you feel he is fine---- doesn't mean he is happy with his own body. If he wants to lose weight, then let him! It's his body!
2006-12-20 14:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋