we were in along distance relationship,i still love him and he loves me too.help!!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 06:33:53 · 16 answers · asked by marsha w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the greatest idea ever!!!
I can see absolutely no down side in you having,
an out of wedlock child
with your ex-boyfriend
who does not live in the same town as you...
Way to go!!!!
To make this awesome ideal complete you should consider, instead of buying food or saving for this bastard child's education, on "investing" all funds in lottery tickets.....
p.s. bastard is not a slant/swear or inappropriate word it is the dictionary definition of what you are planning on having....
2006-12-20 06:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by SALMON 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused too...your ex wants you to have a baby for him...and his new girlfriend? Or he wants you and him to make a baby together? Is he still far away? Who's raising this baby? Are you crazy!
If he still loves you and you him why is he your ex and not your current? Better yet, why doesn't he want you to marry him and then have a family?
If he just wants a booty call and you're up for it, then go for it, but remember to protect yourselves! If he wants you to have a baby for him, first contact a lawyer and get papers drawn up that state that he'll take the baby and be responsible for its care, including financial and that you won't be responsible once you turn the child over to him...if he wants to have a baby with you, the attorney with papers drawn up for him and you to sign stating his financial, emotional, and moral obligations to the child might not be a bad idea either.
2006-12-20 06:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply...he's your ex for a reason isn't he?
Why would you have a child for a man that isn't going to be there?
Why would you have a child, for your ex?
If you still love each other....why aren't you dating? If "distance" is the answer to that question, then how will a child help that situation?
Having a child is a serious ordeal... you need to think clearly about everything that goes with having a child.
2006-12-20 06:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay~ i understand that the 2 of you love eachother, but honey 1st & foremost the 2 of you need to work on yourselves as 1 & then work 2gether & build a strong foundation as a relationship be4 you should even consider having a baby... lord there are great things the 2 of you can enjoy as a couple, that is also something you failed to mention, that the 2 of you r 2gether & have a great bond , understanding & that you both are financially stable, you said yourself you may be confused, so heres my advice to you, enjoy life, live it to the fullest~ pamper yourself, treat yourself, go shopping, go out & enjoy a night or 2 on the town, take a few trips, go on a cruise or two, take weekend shopping sprees, get ya' nails & toes done & a nice massage, buy all types of exotic oils 7 things like that..spoil yourself & make sure he does too & anyone else that comes into your life, tell them you are a queen & will settle for no less than to be treated like such!!!!
2006-12-20 06:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Somthing is not right about that whole conversation. First off he is your EX for a reason, and since he live out of town and yall arent together he could just up and leave with you having to take care of the child by yourself. Maybe he just want to be with you again and yall hae a child so that even f yall do break up again yall will always have a part of eachother to share. You never know what his intentions may be but just be careful and dont do it unless yall get back togehter officially and things seem to be working out
2006-12-20 06:40:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to have a baby "for him?" Hon...what does that mean? Having a baby isn't something that you should "do for someone," like you're doing them a favor....it's a huge commitment that two people should go into TOGETHER.
And how would having a baby together work if you're in a long-distance relationship? Who's going to take care of the baby? Is it only going to grow up with one parent?
My heart goes out to you, hon, but PLEASE...don't do this!
2006-12-20 06:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you confused? What sane person would have a baby with an ex-boyfriend? What sane person would ask such a thing?
Jebus
2006-12-20 06:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you confused about??? Maybe he's going to send you a syringe in the mail or something. And......if he loved you, it wouldn' be a long distance relationship. Think about that.
2006-12-20 06:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I missing something ? a baby for ex-boyfriend.
Wake up !!!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 06:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is an EX shouldnt that answer you question
2006-12-20 06:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by piknik86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋