he smiled and didnt say anythin.do u think he dosnt like me or just didnt want say anythin in front of us.i really like him but dont no what 2 say or do. hes a close friend of the family hes a good bloke.
2006-12-20 06:30:25 · 9 answers · asked by harri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would feel him out and see where his head was. Have a light and easy conversation with him — and find out his status.
Just because he may be unmarried, doesn't necessarily mean he isn't dating anyone.
If you find out he is not interested or is currently dating someone..at least you will know!
Hope this helps! :-)
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2006-12-20 06:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by D M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, now both of you are shy it sounds like. I don't think he really wanted to respond to your sister and he didn't want to ask since it's not coming from you. He's not sure what you'd say and if he had asked and you said no in front of your sister he's be crushed. So what you need to so it ask him for yourself. Just to see how it would go, pick a movie that you think the both of you would like to see then say to him I'm thinking about going to see whatever the movie is would you like to come. Go around 7 or so that way if things are going well as far as the movie then you can get a bite to eat afterwards. Try it, it sounds like you really like him and he seems to have interest in you. Someone has to make the first move why not let it be you. That may show him that you're not afraid to go after what you want. He'll be flattered.
2006-12-20 06:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt always mean he doesnt like you but could just mean he was embarressed. Try making the first move yourself. If hes not intrested then he will soon let you no. Sit him down when he is over at yours or just ring him and mention what your sister had said. You could just say - i cant believe what my sister said, it was kinda embarressing ... but maybe we should go out one night and just see how it goes - if he says no then he doesnt like you but if its maybe or yes then go for it he might not be sure because again he is embarressed but its worth a try what have you got to loose
2006-12-20 06:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time.are you so desperate that you can't wait for him to take the lead?go slowly but surely.if we give all we have in our first date the future will be like those coupe that after a few month have blown out the all dictionary in every aspect and end up bore one to another.besides that don't let nobody to plan or interfere between you and him,you both make your own way and so it will go.wish you luck and that he will be the right one.happy new year.jimmy.
2006-12-20 06:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by papidline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not a good idea to send people from to talk...dare to do it yourself and thats what matters for the guy...do it yourself and you'll get an answer:Yes or No.nothing more.if he said yes,then everything is allright,if he said no...at least you dont follow a dream.you know that he doesnt want to.then you can carry on and find someone else y'know.so dare him and help yourself
2006-12-20 06:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by The dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're both too shy to make a move here...so you might have to be the one to get things started! Work up your courage and ask him out...you'll never know unless you try!
Best of luck! :)
2006-12-20 06:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by wyldberry880 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This time of year it is easy - give him a Christmas card with a note in it asking him out
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2006-12-23 01:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest tell him how you feel to many people loose out because they wait to long or are to shy to do anything about their feelings
2006-12-20 06:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by craw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you need to try and ask him out yourself, maybe hell think its better...
2006-12-20 06:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋