ok guys only, how do you know if its love or lust?

Question

I just met a guy, been seeing him for three weeks now, and I told him last week that I was a web cam model.. I just want to make sure he likes me for me and not because of what I do.. are there any signs that its only lust ( besides him only wanting sex) because we do, do things together besides that..lol

Answer 1

Because you are a web model, might be part of the attractment for him. It would be for me. It is what makes you who you are and what you are and he finds that appealing. My gf was a stripper when we met and it was appealing to me, but not the only appeal. We fell in love and been together over a year. Talking marriage and a child one day. She no longer strips but I still love her because that was only a small part of her charm.

Answer 2

If he would do any thing for your love, I bet that he's not jokeing about it then he's in love with you and not just in lust with you. There are signs to showing if he loves and not lust you. There's only few that I know, for I am willing to the same for my love. 1. the test, tell him that you don't want to even think of sex until after marrage. If he starts to break alittle is fine, cuz in all relationships they all want alittle of loving here and there, but if he cracks all the time, frequently as soon as you start the test then he's lusting for you. 2 If he masterbates alot. If he masterbates alot then he's difantly lusting for you. but not all people masterbate, so if he talks alot sexually with you then he's lusting. 3. If he loves you he would stand up for you when your in trouble, no matter what kind of situation you are in with him. You mad at him, your not talking to him, your in the middle of giving him sexual pleasures, he'll quite what ever he's doing and have all consern upon you.

Answer 3

it is almost always lust to Begin with - some girls will not let you go to bed with them and they treat a person good - sometimes there are girls that will flop into bed on the first meeting - this is lust -
Love is acquired over time - you miss someone, then you want to be with them all the time - you really can't stand to be separated -
and each night you want to see them more - this is falling in love - you do see the difference don't you ?

Answer 4

So,! he is getting the milk free (why buy the cow)
3 weeks and POP into bed. That's the way to build a relationship. Put the important issues off till after you get tired?
You don't want our info. Your just bragging.

Answer 5

Yes, you two should obstain for a while and see if the relationship has any actual "substance". That is why people warn against pre-marrital sex, because only then can you see eachother's true colors.

Answer 6

Cut him off and tell him you are going to wait for marriage. If he is a dope and doesn't really love you he'll be gone very soon. That's the only way you'll know. Otherwise he'll just use you for as long as you'll put up with it.

Answer 7

**please read**
My girlfriend was one of those models. I never saw her differently, I didn't yearn for her more because of that fact, it aroused me but I never looked at her differently.

Signs of lust: Him constantly wanting to be alone with you, him grabbing you every 10 seconds, him coming over everytime and end up having sex...stuff like that.

I hope this helps

Answer 8

Try shutting him down for a week or 2 and if he gets cranky and pushy about it, it is lust.

Answer 9

if you are a webcam model, and cute like the avatar

he just wants sex

Answer 10

I would love you for what you do cuz I know no other men will be able to touch you. It don't matter if another female touches you,that's just hot anyway.