I'm used to being able to buy for everyone this time of year. This year unexpected bills & such prevented that. We had enough for kids (teens), maybe each other & that's it. Everyone keeps saying that it's not the gifts, but it's the time for family to get together. I know this, but can't get past the gift thing. PLEASE HELP!!
2006-12-20 06:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by dumbdago 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Remember that Christmas is not about buying things for everybody you know. It is a celebration of the birth of Christ. People understand that these have been hard times and your children come first. You shouldn't have to worry about anyone else. Have a Merry Christmas!!!
2006-12-20 06:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by DL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family will understand you not being able to buy them a ton of gifts. Theyre your family, after all. If youre really bothered by it why not do something small like make each person a personalized gift, or bake them cookies, etc. But I'm sure, that being your family, you being able to pay your bills off is more important than them getting that new dvd they wanted. also. Do you remember what everyone got you last year? For the most part we get super excited about gifts but as the time goes by, we dont remember who got us what. It wont be a big deal to them now and as time goes by they wont even remember that you werent able to blow all your money on them this year. Just be glad to be with your family. Gifts really are the least important part of all of it.
2006-12-20 14:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. How about writing a Christmas letter to the family thanking them and expressing your love for them. You could also plan a dinner you can make for your family...m,ake up your own certificates and give them...this is especially great if you have someone who may eant childcare. If it si your grandparents, offer to come to their house and clean.
I am sure that your family knows you r situation and will understand, but there are ways of giving that do not cost anything but your time.
In my opionion, these are the best gifts anyway!!!
2006-12-20 14:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Wild seed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This year, I made tree ornaments for everyone. I live in a tropical climate, so I collected shells and hot glued some greenery and red 'berries' to it, along with a red ribbon. They look beautiful, and everyone has loved them. People collect ornaments, and they don't have to be expensive - so you can buy them, or make them. That way, they'll think of you each time they decorate the tree...just a thought. Good luck, and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-20 14:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make homeade gifts like put a bunch of pictures together of all your friends and family on a vase that's what i did and i'm broke cheap present but it's better than nothing
2006-12-20 14:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't let yourself get over it, then work with it. Go to the 99Cents Only store and buy everyone a $1.00 gift. You can make it gag gifts, or try to find something useful. You'd be surprised at what you'll find there.
2006-12-20 14:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You don't have a choice....learn to get past the gift thing. If people cannot understand you are having financial difficulties this year, that's too damn bad. Perhaps you should then consider choosing a better family or growing a bigger spine.
2006-12-20 14:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by S H 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When you are unable to give a gift, give a card--make it yourself--and write a personal note inside. That is something that can be treasured for years!
2006-12-20 14:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy christmas cards and write something nice in them!
tell your familiy your troubles they will understand it' snot th emeaning of christmas!..
i couldn't afford to get ALL my co cowrkers something so th eones i work close with i send a nice christmas card...she called me today to thank me.
i can' tafford gifts for my bfs family so i'm baking a giant bread pudding for all of them to share...
2006-12-20 14:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone will understandand you can buy cheap boxes of chocs
2006-12-20 14:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by frankmilano610 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋