my ex still doesn't get the picture that we are not a couple anymore and i don't want to talk to him and he knows it... he keeps talking to all my friends and convincing them to make me talk to him. He's so pathetic! now i have a new bf and he thinks i'm still seeing my ex b/c my ex keeps trying to talk to me! I've convinced my bf that i'm not seein my ex n-e-more... but wait there's more! now my ex keeps calling me and i NEVER pick up...he's realized this and has started calling from other ppl's fones... he is so annoying! what do i do????!!!!!?!?!?!?
2006-12-20 06:20:27 · 11 answers · asked by <3 a friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just continue doing what you are doing now, dont answer his calls and when you see strange numbers ignore them as well. when your friends try to tell you something about him tell them, "I dont want to hear it and I have moved on". Simply talk to the new bfriend and let him know that you are not interested in the ex anymore.
2006-12-20 06:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of avoiding ur ex boyfriend and not really approaching him urself, you should answer the phone when he calls or even try to see him in person so you can tell him face-to-face that IT IS OVER. You have moved on and you wish him the best of luck in his future; he should move on, also. Maybe the problem is that he isn't getting the picture and that he's simply being stubborn. Be blunt and clear with no room for misinterpretations. If you're afraid to see him in person, simply call him and let him know that you have something really important to say to him and he shouldn't try to argue or get a word in until you are finished. If he still doesn't get the picture, tell an adult that he is harrassing you. Maybe it'll be crystal clear then! Also, tell your current boyfriend about your plans to approach your ex and reassure him that you aren't trying to stir up any other emotions. Good luck.
2006-12-20 06:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nay Nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answre for you problems is not to talk to your ex,is technology use,change your phone number,your cell phone number too,put his mail in span gard on your yahoo and the contact and unproper calls will be solve.also say the new boyfriend all that you will do the get ride of the previous and to stop pressuring you will jelousy that it will go nowhere.if it doesn't just break up and go on.eventually the people he is calling won't answer the phone too so let him do whatever.don't let a bad desicion ruin your life.have a happy new year with or without boyfriend.
2006-12-20 06:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by papidline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could change your number - but if thats not possible than i would seriously pick up the phone next time he calls and hand the phone over to one of your guy friends or any man in your life, to have THEM explain to your EX to leave you alone. My psycho Ex got the picture after one of my male friends told him flat out to leave me alone. Try that approach, if you cant change your number.
2006-12-20 06:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey change ya # and put a restraining order on him . he is breakin laws but stalkin and harrassing u. ok. i know this i have law in my fam and u should do this now b4 it gets worse or outta hand. plus if u dont know the # dont PU and if u change ya # only give it to ppl u can trust and if u need to call someone who still talks to him block ya # 1st and then call. there are so many things u can do to avoid this.
2006-12-20 06:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by khester05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph he is pathetic and I agree with Rachel but Merry Christmas
2006-12-20 06:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have 2 let him c u and ur new bf out 2gether
2006-12-20 06:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Queenbee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats really stupid i would tell him that hes messing up big time and if he doesnt stop calling you that your calling the cops. Make it clear to him you dont want anything to do with him anymore and then if he doesnt stop call the cops.
2006-12-20 06:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by xsecretxowishesx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report the prick to the police for harrassment !
2006-12-20 06:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree to meet him. Take your current boyfriend with you (without violence) and explain to him that it's over.
2006-12-20 06:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋