They don't beat around the bush. If they want something or someone, they let it be known. If they don't, they make that pretty obvious too. I'm a 25/f, and single. Men...please provide feedback. Maybe I'm wrong and that's why I'm single. HAHAHA.
2006-12-20 06:17:02 · 25 answers · asked by KR1981 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to add something. When I said men go after what they want, I meant they will flirt or just engage in conversation. They won't just walk away. I know lots of women (in their 30's) that think 'oh...he's just not calling me because he's busy' or 'he wants me, but just doesn't know how to handle it'. It's bullsh*t. If someone wants you, they'll put the effort into making you feel wanted.
2006-12-20 06:37:02 · update #1
You are correct lol. While women strategize and plan, we men just tend to get struck. Struck one way or another, but it's generally unmistakeable. The signs of approval or disapproval may vary, but anyone can distinguish between a positive or negative emotion. And let me say that what I've learned about women is....your feelings are usually right on. So go with your instincts and either make it happen or let it be.
2006-12-20 06:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by david s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are as direct.I have found that it's better to be polite and not a jerk.Get to know someone for who they are instead of looking for a quicky.Being direct is OK if the only thing you want is a piece of tail but if you take it slow and get to know the person first you may find that they have more to offer than just sex.This is one reason why so many people play the games they do (hit it and git it) then move along.
2006-12-20 06:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men (in general) are definitely more direct than most women. Women will hint and use subtle tactics whereas guys will just put it out there (or take it away)...and don't tend to "get" subtle hints at all (not clearly anyway).
I, as a women, appreciate their directness and wish even more of them would be that way...I wonder if they learned the "brush off" technique from women because I'd much rather be told straight up "I don't like you" than have a guy just stop communicating...and yet, even though it's somewhat out of character, more and more of 'em do it.
2006-12-20 06:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Dear,
That's true of about 2/3 of men, more or less.....
The remaining 3rd, however, are totally incapable of communicating their wants or needs in general, and spend most of their time worrying about what the woman is thinking, wanting, or needing..sometimes so much that it is paralyzing.
These guys can really be nice, and fulfilling partners, but you need to lead them, by the hand, heart, or whatever other body part is necessary.
It mostly depends on what you are looking for in a guy, really.....and it's not as simple as all this, really....were more of a "spectrum" type of creature...running the whole range from very direct to completely paralyzed.
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-20 06:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are straight forward with what they want. The ones who are straight forward, don't want games and drama. The ones who aren't just want to play the game or just want to be sure what you want. They don't want to run you off.
For your situation as far as being single, I think it may have to deal with the guys you have interest in. A certain type. Sounds like a mid to late 20s thug. Well they don't like games. They want what they want. Try going for a sincere guy or a nice guy. They're the ones who take your feelings into consideration
2006-12-20 06:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by shinuyugi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a man but just to add,when they want a girl they flirt and if they got the girl they leave them.
MAn are made for conquest after conquest - - they cant be satisfied with one and that goes with their biological need
Seriously they have one common denominator which is hidden below their belts. - - Sometimes it has a mind of its own. hahaha
some guys are really iceberg they really dont feel what you feel giving you a real hard time you see They are also Insensitive - - They know it woul hurt you but they still do it anyway.
2006-12-20 06:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by meaurge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds Like You Answered Your Own Question!
2 Points for you!
2006-12-20 06:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by jab92593 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've hit it right on the head, no pun intended. Men have a one track mind, it's like we have blinders on. Cut the BS and get right to the point. Women need to come around it's 07 now...time to go out and get what you want.
2006-12-20 06:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by 2timer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, I'm not a man but you're 25? WELCOME TO WOMANHOOD!!!!!! seriously when women turn 25 they start to figure sh!t out especially about men, it only gets easier from here, you're starting to figure it out soon, you'll look at 19 - 20 year olds and Say.....they're so naieve, men don't beat around the bush, they're very sexual beings they want soemthing like you said.....they go after it. Good luck
2006-12-20 06:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that statement pertains to all men. It's too general. Some men are like that, some aren't. Sounds like you've been hanging around the wrong guys...Maybe that's why you're single?
Good luck !
2006-12-20 06:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋