we were going out for about a year and 2 months and we had a mutual agreement to breakup because “she want to see what’s out their and test the waters” I was thinking about sending her mom some flowers or something bc her mom is cool, but I don’t know what to get my ex. She got a boyfriend and all but she said she still love me and wants to be good friends but I told her no a while back that no because every time I look at her I feel bad to know she’s not mine to hold. She is always on “you never know what the future hold” but anyway back to the main topic “what the heck should I get her” and do you think a flower is good to give her mom?
2006-12-20 06:16:41 · 26 answers · asked by King Dre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOTHING! That's what she deserves for giving you false hope of a future relationship.
2006-12-20 06:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Noodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-23 01:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 23:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, send her mom some flowers, but I would nix getting your ex a gift. She is playing you a bit, just look at the facts:
1. she broke up with you to be with another guy(s)
2. she has a bf
3. she still tells you she loves you
Sound good? Or does it sound like maybe she's keeping you in the picture in case things don't work out with the bf?
Don't get her a gift, and politely tell her not to say she loves you because if she did, she wouldn't treat you like this.
2006-12-20 06:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by shaclare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can send her mother something that's very sweet of you... but lemme tell you something that I learned a long while ago.
Dont waste your time on someone who isnt willing to waste their time on you.
If she's gotta go out there and "test the waters" and now boom she's got a boyfriend. Dont worry about what you are going to get her for christmas. Let her current boyfriend take care of it. It sounds like she is stringing you along (from what you say anyways.) Saying things like "you never know what the future will hold" that is the kind of things that people say to keep you on a leash so whenever her current boyfriend screws her over she will be able to run back to you. Don't let her have that kind of control over you. And don't get hung up on her. You should date other people...don't waste time on her because she's obviously not wasting time on you!
Save your money...and if you HAVE to get her something get her a gift certificate to her favorite store i.e. Bath & Body Works, whatever...so she can get whatever she wants and it's not too personal so the boyfriend cant get mad.
2006-12-20 06:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWW. That's sweet, you don't want to show her any attraction, because well she has a bf. Let me start off with: it's a good idea to give flowers to her mom if you really think she's a very cool mom. The girl, however, might be a problem. You can give her like a teddy bear that says "Merry Christmas". If you really care about her, just give her something that shows her you care. G'luck!
2006-12-20 06:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She's an ex who has a new boyfriend. Being friends with exes usually doesn't work - she wants you as a back up plan if this doesn't work out. Don't get her mom anything either - nice thought but you need to cut ties with this group.
2006-12-20 06:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-29 01:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get her anything, and definitely get her mom flowers. And by the way, that doesn't sound like a mutual breakup to me.
2006-12-20 06:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by seeinred06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she's not your girlfriend anymore and she has her own boyfriend just get her and her mom flowers so that there are no hard feelings.Don't get her anything more because her boyfriend might get jealous.Alot of guys underestimate the power of flowers.
2006-12-20 06:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to your ex mom in law flowers will be fine with a chocolate box attached,to your ex buy her a backup system for computer,if she ask you why you say that is for her to remind you what you are in the relation now,her backup plan in case things goes wrong with the other boyfriend or if she gets in trouble "waters".that will go straigh to her heart and you would gave a very usefull present.
2006-12-20 06:22:46 · answer #11 · answered by papidline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋