I feel a person knows when THEY ARE BEING ABUSIVE....such?

Question

as picking on people, saying false bad stuff about them, or just yelling at others because they just happen to disagree...what is your take on that???? I am not buying that THEY DO NOT KNOW....sure they do..i know what i do...!!! but i feel it is best to try to get away IF you can...anyway, i feel an abuser knows he is an abuser...I AM SURE PEOPLE HAVE TOLD HIM!!!

Answer 1

of course they know. they do it to be mean.

Answer 2

I think it depends on the type of abuse. Physical abuse absolutely, verbal abuse, most likely, emotional I'm not so sure about. A lot of times people say and do things without trying to hurt the other, but it happens anyway. I think some verbal and emotional abuse isn't clear cut.

Answer 3

i think it depends on what type of abuse you are talking about. my boyfriend thinks that i am mean and that i think im better than others and argumentative. LOL im just a woman..anyways. I dont feel that way about myself, i think sometimes people judge your actions or take your actions differently than you intend them to be and that could make someone think you are a way that you are not. Now with physical abuse yeah they know and they just dont care, but with emotional abuse i think that they might not know they are hurting someone they just do or say what they feel or think not knowing it will hurt the other person. Just a thought

Answer 4

Most people do it because they lack self-esteem and they are afraid of not being in control of a situation. They attempt to feel good about themselves by abusing other people, it doesn't work but they keep on trying anyway.

Answer 5

A lot of people don't want to take responsibility for there actions it's so much easier to blame others for your flaws

Answer 6

Im an abuser. We know what were doing.