should i go to the movies with a friend i met online? i've known him for about 3years and he doesn't seem like a bad person to me. but i still don't feel very safe. he doesn't want me to bring a friend along either. should i go out with him?
2006-12-20 05:29:30 · 11 answers · asked by boring! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to pay attention to that gut part of you saying "I don't feel safe". There is a reason you feel that way, listen to it.
2006-12-20 05:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't agree to the movie right away. If you choose to meet him then meet him for a coffee at Starbucks or something. Arrange in advance for a friend to call you on your phone say half an hour into the date. If you don't feel comfortable with him make your excuses and leave saying you have to go and if he asks why say your friend just told you something that means you have to go right now (think of something plausible). If on the other hand you feel you can trust him then go to the movies after Starbucks.
If however your instincts tell you not to meet him at all then it might be wise to trust your instincts and not meet him.
2006-12-20 05:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i'm truthfully and grownup. thrice a grandmother. it style of feels you have have been given got here upon a kindred spirit, yet persons are no longer the comparable in person as they are on line. Make preparations to trip, and decide what you opt to verify and do interior the city. Then pass forward and meet him... in a coffee save or at a eating place. you will get suggestion on the place to tell him to fulfill you from the hotel. do no longer permit him understand the place you're staying except the head to head assembly is a favorable one. then you relatively ought to pass to a museum, or interest, or nightclub with him in the past getting intimate. you ought to have better than an afternoon or 2 at the same time in the past making that selection. good success! i wish he's the single. My costly buddy met her husband on line and that they are nonetheless fortunately at the same time after 9 years.
2016-10-15 07:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet in a public place. I would be worried why he doesn't want afridn along on a 1st date from an internet relationship. Trust your instincts. We here aboiut these situations all the time on the news and they never turn out well.
2006-12-20 05:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by sparetom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there you have meet someone on line ....so did i and it has worked so well that we now live together and plan to get married so not all guys on the net are bad .....but having said that you have to be very careful get a friend to be around you and stay a bit back and when you have seen him,have an arranged time for youre friend to phone you ,and if things go wrong you have an escape route to get out of the situation .......like going to the loo and not going back .......you have to be really sure with this guy befor you meet .....have you seen a photo of him ......if not ask for one from him and see what he says back .......good luck and take care xx
2006-12-20 05:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very carefull
I´ll say bring a friend anyway
or meet him on a public place, like a coffe shop several times, before going to a more pirvate place like the movies
2006-12-20 05:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen hun-ANYONE can seeeeem like a good person online...like predetors.i'm not saying he is but hecould be.You should never meet someone in person that u met online without having somone along who can protect you. yes meet hima t the movies and don't tell him you are bringing a friend.bring a couple of guy friends-preferably thebody builders,lol. and maby even your dad.....hif he really leiks u he wont' care.
take care and don't get yourself hurt
~Ally
2006-12-20 05:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't go to a movie. Can't get to know someone better there.
Try a public place and you will feel safer
2006-12-20 05:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. But if you do decide to, meet him in a public place. That way if he does try anything there will be lots of people there to help you.
2006-12-20 05:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by Adam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmmhhhmmmhhmNO HONEY....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOVE IS NOT WORTH BEING KILLED OVER...TRUST ME.
You don't have to risk your precious life with some "goo-goo-ga-ga" cutie-wannabe-pie dude!..relax..keep chatting online..and YOU ARE YOUR OWN BOSS WHEN IT COMES TO LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS!!! Dont you dare allow him to push you over the hedge...you decide where to go, what time, where to meet, who to go with, and what to do...tell him that because its the FIRST time you guys are going to meet, your FRIENDS...I mean FRIENDS..like A LOT NOT JUST ONE ...HAVE to (and they do) COME!!!.
You hold on to those friends, and DONT let them leave your side for the WHOLE night..understood?
good. Now speak your mind, sista!
2006-12-20 05:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋