Ok, I'm 24 and Aaron is 26. We where talking last night before he got out of my car to go into work. He works overnights. And I was talking about letting him meet my friend Jonnie who has a 2 yr old son and is married. And I told him what she looked like and stuff, and he said oh she's one of the hot ones her husband might get jelous.
Then he proceeds to say... " I work with a bunch of hot girls, its just my luck they are all taken". And so I asked if he was getting sick of me or something because he never has called me hot. And keep in mind guys I'm not hot i'm heavyset.
This morning when he called to see if I could give him a ride to work, I asked him about it. He said he thinks all girls are hot.
And then I was talking to my friend Jewell, whose brother happens to be Aaron's superviser. And she was talking to her brother. And apperantly Aaron gives this gal at work money to pay bills all the time. And he buys the gals food from the vending machines.
2006-12-20 05:25:17 · 18 answers · asked by Brandi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep in mind they all make right around $11/per hour. Which is really good money around here. So any thoughts would be nice.
2006-12-20 05:26:23 · update #1
He's my boyfriend, not friend boyfriend.
2006-12-20 05:30:52 · update #2
Its neither the money or car. He makes twice as much as I do. And I have an old beater for a car a 93 Ford Escort Wagon that Is 1/2 one color and 1/2 another color.
2006-12-20 05:35:21 · update #3
He doesn't get a free ride from me. He gives me $10 bucks everytime I take him. Its about a 25 mile drive. He works in the next town over.
2006-12-20 05:42:46 · update #4
you could be over dramatic about this..
has he cheated on you? has he bought you stuff?
he is with you? is ent he?
don't over push something like this unless you know some thang is going to happen, people take there spouses for granted all the time,
the lady might need the help.. you never know, it is the holidays right now....
so id say give a nother shot, don't give up on what you have because you will hate your self even more...
2006-12-20 05:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Need more information.
Sounds like he could just be a nice guy, helping out a friend at work and vending machine snacks aren't that big a deal. Are you sure the repot you got was accurate???
As for the hotness issue, he's with you right? Are you rich? Is it the money or the car? If not then don't worry about it. You're probably just feeling a bit insecure and that alright but don't worry about something that's not broken.
If you're really worried about him cheating or leaving, just be a freak in bed. Keep him too tired to even think about cheating.
2006-12-20 05:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh guy it quite is a hard undertaking. especially once you are the jealous style. i understand i might additionally pass berserk if i've got been on your footwear. in spite of the shown fact that, the only suggestion i ought to grant to you is to no longer be paranoid. she is your suitable buddy, and you ought to escpect the suitable from her. proceed being trustworthy together with her, and implore that she do the comparable element: be trustworthy. As for the guy, in case you like him, you ought to have faith him. through fact, you already know, how can there be love whilst there's no have faith?? if all of it comes all the way down to the greater severe (which i wish won't take place) then you relatively've a right to be indignant, because you depended on them the two, and because they are 2 of the persons you vare maximum approximately interior the international, and that they betrayed you. basically pray that that doesn't take place.
2016-10-15 07:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who says he thinks all girls are hot is lying.
Sweety, this guy is not into you, from what you say he is just using you, maybe for the free ride, maybe for the free sex (if you have sex) maybe for money. Whatever. But he is clearly just with you until he finds something better. No girl deservers that, you should only be with a guy who wants to be with you, not a guy who treats you as a second prize.
2006-12-20 05:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all giving out money to someone else is a no no just cause it can be taken the wrong way. I mean if he is giving another woman or girl money for her bills chances are he is trying to show her he can help her out and is there for her on a different level. It sounds like your man has no respect for you because he talks about "hot girls " to you and to me that is disrespectful and shows he doesnt care about your feelings especially if you are a heavy set girl who probably thinks your man is trying to trade up to one of these hot girls. sounds like you guys are on the way to 1 of several talks that lead up to seeing other people
2006-12-20 05:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by jai p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that you are making a big deal out of nothing? Just a possibility. It is true that when we are in a relationship we might take our partner for granted and not tell her that she is hot. Not the right thing to do but it happens anyway.
I do find it disturbing that he is helping another woman financially...unless it is out of charity.
2006-12-20 05:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's trying to play games so you will pay more attention to him or something. Being nice is good and flirting maybe his nature but as long as he's coming home to you then I think it is harmless. Just keep communicating with him and make each other happy.
2006-12-20 05:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what!!!!! $11/hour!!!! thats crazy.
ok, back to your question.
he is not happy and is only with you b/c its convientant. leave him. he does not think your hot and will leave you as soon as someone better looking comes along. he is obviously only into looks.
i know this b/c i am shallow. thats how we think. i have had those exact same thoughts. i know what he is thinking. leave now before you get hurt. go find someone who will love you for who you are and not what you are. if you lookied really good he would treat you totally differant. i know b/c like i said. i am the same way
2006-12-20 05:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Steven Colbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a few words ur relationship doesnt seem impressive n the course of things arent pleasent if I were u.
2006-12-20 05:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is totally using you. Its disgusting.
Anyone who describes all girls as "hot" dosen't have the maturity to be in a relationship.
2006-12-20 05:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋