well, you should talk to him. ask him whats goin on, tell him you feel distant. see how he reacts, how long have been together? If he keeps acting the same way then do what you have to do... walk away. you dont deserve to be treated that way. Good luck!
2006-12-20 05:35:35
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answered by Stargazer 2
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from personal experience..make sure you talk to him. If you cant talk to him he is not someone you want to be with anyway . But how is he acting different? bein snotty with you,avoiding you, or is he just been more withdrawn? best thing i can think of would be just to ask him if everything is ok , but do it in a nice way, but make a point. dont ask "whats wrong with you ?" just say somethin like" (name here), I've noticed that you havent quite been yourself lately, is there anything you want to talk about?" try not to lose your cool if he snaps back or blames you or wants to break up, ( cause you dont need to get upset about losing someone like that anyway). dont let him win by gettin mad or crying or yelling at him..be calm and he'll see what he is really losing.... and you never know maybe there is somethin else goin on that has him withdrawn and may have nothing to do with you and you can help him out . but most importantly , dont let him play you either. hope this helps a little.
2006-12-20 05:37:58
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answered by J5 2
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Talk to him first!
Ask him what's going on. Ask him if he needs anything. If he needs space, give it to him. Not too much though. Let him know how you feel, that you feel neglected and you feel a rift growing between you guys...
2006-12-20 05:31:41
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answered by elmo 1
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you should not push for an answer because if you do it will make thangs worse... have you done some thang wrong?
the best thang you can do is give him time... he will come around, and if he do sent tell him you need to move on,
2006-12-20 05:28:18
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answered by ? 4
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let him go or give him some space. if he wants to talk then he will contact you. i have been there more times to count. if you keep calling him, he will think you are a pest. sounds like he wants to break up.
2006-12-20 05:29:35
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answered by MiaDiva28 6
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Cant make him talk to do dump the fool, ill go out with you ;)
2006-12-20 05:26:01
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answered by Anonymous
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every man is different but ive always found in my previous relationships that when they start to ignore you there is someone else.
2006-12-20 06:18:28
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answered by Anonymous
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move on to anohter guy. one that treats u better
2006-12-20 05:26:09
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answered by jenivive 6
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im in the same situation
2006-12-20 06:00:21
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answered by walaa a 1
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