I met this really great guy and started talking to him I am really attracted to him would it be bad if I took the next step with him in the bedroom if I only known him for a week but talk to him everyday or should I make him wait
2006-12-20 04:03:44 · 21 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WAIT!!! All you will do is show the guy that you are easy. I know that is not WHY you would do it (since you seem to honestly care about him, and have good chemistry)....but if you want this to last any longer than it has gone now...you will want to wait. Not only could it prevent a future romantic relationship, it could also possibly destroy a future friendship. I have seen some of my guy friends, who are really great guys, sleep with a girl soon after they meet her (because the are guys and rarely will ever say no to sex), and after that they lose all respect for her, and don't view her as "girlfriend" material anymore...not even really "friend" material....they just view her as a loose girl who will sleep with whomever whenever...
Take my advice. Make him wait...it may be hard, but he'll respect you!
2006-12-20 04:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by I'minlovewiththeboy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Am assuming you are not a virgin so waiting for marriage is out of the question. I know for a fact man do not like easy women; men get tired fast. Therefore, my advice to you is to wait a while and make sure that you both like the same things in life. Having a good long conversation last longer then just having sex.
2006-12-20 12:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should wait. I was in a similar situation. I meet this guy. He seem like really nice, and someone I could possible see myself dating. We dated and I spent a little over a month getting to know him and him getting to know me. We are sexual people by nature. Even through I wasn't head over heels about him, I slept with him. I should have waited b/c I realized I didn't like that much and I had to break up with him.
2006-12-20 12:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends what you want out of this relationship. if its' a hit and quit then by all means. jump his bones and whatever happens happens. but by the sound of things you like him so why not go on a few dates, get to know each other a little bit better and take it from there, it's better to wait then to be sorry!
Good luck
2006-12-20 12:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do What You Think Will Make Your Relationship Better! Have Sex With Him!
2006-12-20 12:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by nique2107 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say go with the flow...If it happens be sure its wrapped up and have a good time....If it dont happen then its just not ment for you to do it yet..You will know when to go for it
2006-12-20 12:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kell bell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl, in the bedroom or wherever it's gonna be.
2006-12-20 12:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by KirstenP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him wait till you are married
2006-12-20 12:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm, I believe you should wait. I think you should tell him your feelings first before you try to make a "move."
2006-12-20 12:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by Chels 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say wait. if you do it now it might seem like your a whore. if you wait at least three more weeks then it might not look as bad. so wait.
2006-12-20 12:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by love me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋