2006-12-20 04:03:12 · 6 answers · asked by c_green1961 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my brother was murdered in 96 we took his clothes to a woman and she took parts of them and sewed in a quilt with things that he liked football,basketball, etc. my mom cherishes this quilt. she says that she can seem him in each article of clothing on it.
2006-12-20 04:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by lmw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you give your greiving sister a Christmas gift to remind her of such a loss?
If you want to do something in her childs memory I would save that for another time of year - it isn't appropriate for Christmas IMO. Think about it - you're whole family gathered around the tree with your poor sister sobbing over the gift you gave her....
I think it would be very nice to do something like the above suggestion - just not now
2006-12-20 12:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yor sis will be grieving for the rest of her life. I have 5 kids and I could not imagine my life without any of them. I would think get her something she likes or even a gc for an evening out. She needs to continue living no matter how difficult it is her child would want that for her. Hope you and your family have a wonderful xmas!
2006-12-20 13:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my mom's dad died 15 years ago they took his favorite coat and took it a woman who make a teddy bear out of it. Maybe you could take the son's favorite coat or something and make a bear out of, so that whenever she is missing him she can hug the bear and feel a hole lot better it works for my mom is should work for your sister. Just make sure she has an awsome Christmas.
2006-12-20 12:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off,I want to say "my heart goes out to the whole family!
Go and get your sister a gift certificate to pampering land,so she could get her nails, feet,& massage.That won't take her mind off her son 4-ever,but that preciouse time,at that moment will feel so good!!
2006-12-20 12:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by hot chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enlarge a nice photograph of her son and put it in a beautiful picture frame and give it to her. May God give her strength to overcome this sadness.
2006-12-20 12:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by pizza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋