Hi,
I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and l am still a virgin, but lately I have not felt the same when we are intimate with each other. I have been making up excuses and prolonging those intimate moments but I feel really sorry for him because I know that he thinks he no longer satisfies me and I am aware that havng those moments are important in a relationship but I simply don't feel like doing it. Has this ever happened to you? What does it mean?
2006-12-20 04:02:28 · 29 answers · asked by amy r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't get it.4 years??No sex?? But intimate moments??
2006-12-20 04:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HI Amy
Amy hungry?? i don't get it! Four years, intimate moments and you are still a virgin???? That's not intimate, nothing to do with intimacy. That's a waste of 4 years!!
By the way no its never happened to me. I wouldn't stay with someone for 4 years to waste time.
2006-12-20 12:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice up your realtionship. That happens. It's normal. It's just mean it been routinary. You need to spark up your relationship. Go out of town together, etc. If you don't feel doing it, don't. You might regret it later. Or sometimes people need space too from time to time. How old are you anyways?
2006-12-20 12:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Confuse_Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have had this happened to me.
1. It very well may mean that maybe you dont feel the same way about him you did before. But you might as well love him just as much too.
2. I belive in sex after marrige and i always will, and maybe deep dpwn in your heart you do to and you are just worried, and scared that maybe your intercourses will turn into something you simply arnt ready for.
I suggest you talk with your boyfriend and tell him it isnt that you dont love him, its that you just dont feel comfertable, and you dont want to get too close to him if you dont think you are going to be married!
GOood Luck
2006-12-20 12:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your not a lesbian right? If not, my girlfriend is the same way but understands what I need. Its wrong to go without you know what. I am though, proud that you still have your V card. Its good to hear. Keep it up, but on occassion, satisfy him. Good luck and show him what you guys are! A loving couple.
2006-12-20 12:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Brevin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I spent six non-intimate relationship with my boyfriend and he had no problem with that. We just spent the time learning more about each other.
2006-12-20 12:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you still a virgin, but you've had intimate moments with him?
2006-12-20 12:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by yeah yeah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that you need to stop worrying that he thinks he no longer satisifies you but instead he needs to respect your decision to remain a virgin. If he can't do that, time to find someone else that can.
2006-12-20 12:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend should dump you and move on. He doesn't want you anyways. Four years wasted with the likes of you.
2006-12-20 12:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(Depending how old you are) Get married already!!! Four years is a long time, and if you believe in saving your virginity til you're married... then you need to be fair to him and get married... then you would be able to have a more satisfying time of intimacy together.
2006-12-20 12:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by S@R!KO 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋