I have had great life, I had all that I needed and then one day I fall in love decided to change it all just to make him happy and he was so much with me but he left me in the middle. Now I have nothing lost my job and cant go back cos my dignity will be hurt if I do, my family judje me cos of that what I did for a man that they said is not good enough for me. Cristmas is coming and I am back alone!
2006-12-20 04:01:52 · 16 answers · asked by seeyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lost love. but those are the crazy things that we'll do when we think that we're in love with someone, and we have to take that chance to know that true love still exists. so we get back up, clean ourselves off and go on with our lives because if we don't, we may never meet anyone, can never go on, if we don't, and don't love ourselves, what good are we for anyone else to begin with? you'll find someone else, but it'll never be right if you continue to stay down and out.
2006-12-20 04:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which would you rather have? A saved dignity or a job that supplies a roof over your head, food on the table and clothes on your back? Screw what the family thinks, they've made or will make their fair share of mistakes and have no right to point their fingers at you.
2006-12-20 04:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gain some pride in yourself, you made a couple of mistakes, everyone does, including me. Pick yourself up and go to your family this Christmas and I`m sure they will support you in this, sure you will have to put up with some taunts and snides, but that's part of life and the sooner you get it over with the sooner it will stop and you can get your life back on track.
The more you worry about it the worse it will get for you. Everything will become alright in the very near future, so don`t panic about it.
2006-12-20 04:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us have very bad times like this. Keep your spirits up and remember there are loads of people out there, and I know that the person you want is out there waiting for you. Just go to places where you know other people go (clubs, pubs, etc ) and before you know it you will be with the right one. It has happened to me many times, but all worked out right in the end, so believe me you will be O.K. (and there are quite a few jobs out there so get weaving!)
2006-12-20 04:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to your family. Tell them you know you made a mistake.
Get a new job. Start over. You CAN! You need to look forward to a new life that you can make for yourself. You don't need to depend on a man to do it for you.
2006-12-20 04:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever and i mean ever change yourself for a guy ever again. frankly they aint that worth it if they left you like that. as for your family they are just upset cos u got hurt n dey cudnt do nefn bout it but they'll come around i promise. well its christmas so get into the spirit and decorate ur house and invite sum frends over cos they are the people u need right now
2006-12-20 04:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Shaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i was in this position last christmas. it got better but this christmas is a million times worse except for the fact that i am talking to my family again. there really is nothing you can do, it will get better. call your family and tell them you made a mistake, no one should be alone on christmas. even if they are still mad at you you can make things right. say you're sorry.
2006-12-20 04:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to face but that is not the end of the world. Whatever happens, happens for good.Have faith in god and thank him that he left you at this stage probably it could be more serious if he had left you later. Think you are so good and he does not deserve a nice girl like you. Prey to God and do meditation like, sit down on floor in the dim light, clos your eyes and try to concentrate the face of God (you believe in) At that moment try to forget anyhin else and u see soon you will overcome this ...God bless you !!!
2006-12-20 04:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by pizza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe write to that man who you helped
maybe now you need something
maybe tell him what you think you need
maybe he would help you
maybe your family should help you too and not judge quite so much, some really low esteem people can't ever stop judging others. If they can always point to somebody "lower" in some way , they can avoid dealing with their own issues.
2006-12-20 04:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really what other people think about you is irrelevant --- dignity is how you feel about yourself --- if you need the work then see if you can get back there or do something completely different --- you have the chance to change your whole life --- dont make it a disaster make it a challange
2006-12-20 04:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋