I am dating this woman and she is having problems with her daughter so she is not talking to me or when she does it is really rude. I dont know if I should consider my happiness before hers and leave or if I should give in and leave it alone.
2006-12-20 03:56:41 · 11 answers · asked by my_names_do_not_work 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a childs happiness comes before any mans. Talk to her and explain how you feel, if she dont change, move on. Hopefully she is just stressed and will try to make you feel better. I have kids and If i have probs with my kids, it puts strain on my relationships too, I don't mean to, it just happens, but as soon as I realize it I try to make it better. Hopefully you can work things out. Good luck
obviously her child is real impotant to her, try to offer help or relief
2006-12-20 04:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your decision. You are dating her, not married to her. If you don't feel like dealing with the abuse, walk away. Find somebody who will be good to you.
If you want to give her some time to get her feet under her, do that. Let her work out her problems with her daughter and then come find you again.
It's up to you, but I would definitely consider my own happiness before that of a person who was being mean to me. Good luck--
2006-12-20 12:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In my experience, if the thought of breaking up crosses your mind more than once, then you probably should get it over with. Never put someone elses happiness in front of yours until there is a concrete, valid reason to do so. IE: long term relationship, marriage.
2006-12-20 12:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her issue between her daughter is hurting your relationship; you need to talk to her about it because only the two of you can work that out. If she feels like she can't keep her issues aside OR if you can't help support her with her personal issues, than maybe the two of you are not good for each other.
2006-12-20 11:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First and foremost it is the woman's problem. If she wants you in her life she has to do something about it right now, if she doesn't feel like that, leave her.
2006-12-20 12:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by KirstenP 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're asking whether to break up with a woman or not, then the answer is "Yes". Either she's messed up or your brain's already moving on. Fair or not, it's over.
2006-12-20 11:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by TimmyD 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should really ask yourself.... if you're happy in this relationship or not.
and if you arent happy- then just get out. you SHOULD always consider your happiness first (well most of the times)
plus when it involves the significant other having children of their own- you need to think about wanting to be involved with that or not.
2006-12-20 12:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by tooxswt 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
**** her and leave her.u hv already decided to leave her man.why playing wid ur feelings?
2006-12-20 12:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by vivs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are considering it the answer is yes
2006-12-20 12:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes, do things that'll make you happy
2006-12-20 12:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by thomas 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋