how do you let a boy know that you really have feelings for him. I really like this boy, but it seems like i'm invisible to him in his eyes. how do i get him to notice me.
2006-12-20 03:47:59 · 12 answers · asked by Daniela15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you have to understand what kind of person he is. If he's the artistic type, write him a poem. If he likes likes music, learn a few chords on a guitar. Of course you'll look totally lame. But if he knows why you are making a fool of yourself he will instantly fall for you. Just let him know by whatever indirect means that you know what makes him 'tick'.
2006-12-20 03:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start off by being yourself. If you fake a personality that's not yours, you'll never be comfortable in your own skin.
Secondly, you DO need to make sure he knows who you are. Is it possible to get introduced via other friends or friends of friends. That's a start. But then, are there clubs/organizations that he's involved in that you have an interest in joining too? (Don't get involved in something like though unless you're truly interested).
Most of the time I've found that I really have to make an effort to get a guy to see me and get to know me 'cause I've always been a girl next door type. I'm the one who ends up being their friend not the girlfriend. BUT - if I can manage to pull off a little flirting and act COOL - not girly and not act dumb and just be myself....that usually gets me noticed.
Good luck.
2006-12-20 11:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by mama_mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to become friends with him first because if he doesn't really know you at all he might reject you. If you are friends with him already just ask him to hang out maybe with a group of friends first because that may be a more comfortable approach. If he shows interest back, then I would ask him out. What is the worst he can say, no?? If he doesn't like you then he is not good enough for you!!! Good luck!
2006-12-20 11:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by azdaizey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he looks through you as though you are invisible, why force your self on him. I bet there is this one handsome guy that has been watching every move you make that you have not noticed.
Stop trying to get noticed by this guy, that's the time he'll come crawling to you.
2006-12-20 11:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with not chasing boys, I've seen chicks do it & it's basically pathetic! it's like a girl horn dog that always get shut down and cries like a little puppy cause they really did know better! however you need to make some kind of communication and then if you try to talk to him and he disses you then it was only a crush. when that happens you won't like him anymore. God if i can count all the dickheads i used to think were cute!
2006-12-20 11:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can treat him nicely and let him feel that you hv feeling with him.It is gud tht u let the person know u lk him.Therefore,beside gud 2 him, u oso nid 2 try 2 do something 2 catch his attention lk helping him in his homework or play with him in games and etc.
Dun feel scare let ppl noe tht you got feel with him.Love is priceless and hard 2 find.Therefore,hope u will apperiate it.
Gud Luck!!^^
2006-12-20 11:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by raveboy34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several approaches. You can tell him in person, write him a letter or a poem, or get some help from someone who actually knows him.... Remember that once you express your feelings to him, then you can't take it back, especially if he doesn't feel the same way....
2006-12-20 11:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by In The Same Boat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
In another question on here a few days ago, one girl walked up to a guy out of the blue, and said "I think you're gorgeous".....he's been looking for his mind ever since.
You might consider such a strike of lightning. It doesn't mean much, taken out of context, but it sure gets the message across.
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-20 11:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. go up and talk 2 him when u get them chance and like mention it if u have a class or something talk about a place u saw him at and see if he noticed u more than likely he noticed u but men r weird.
2006-12-20 11:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by Nicoble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If he was interested in you, he'd notice you. He doesn't because he's not. How can you really like someone who doesn't know you exist? Don't chase boys.
2006-12-20 11:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋