Ok this is a really tricky one...here goes.
I met this girl while working in the summer of '06, and ever since I met her, I have not been able to get her out of my head. We dated 3 times, however there was no kissing etc.. Anyway university came and I spoke to her every other week, and I was suppossed to go and see her, however she cancelled on me. But to my surprise she came and saw me the week later. We all went on a night out, and she even slept in my bed with me...however nothing happened. Xmas is here and I am working with her again, and I have invited her out but she says she is really busy with coursework and other things.
So I really want to be with her, I sometimes become emotional when thinking about her, even shedding a tear or 2 because I like her that much, its depressing me. I just want to know what I should do. Do I persist with her? is she interested but shy? is she just looking for friendship? And how the hell do I stop thinking about her?
2006-12-20 03:23:36 · 3 answers · asked by rmattai3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she wants to set the pace for any relationship you may have. For various reasons she needs to be in control. If you really care about her, let things be. If you really can't take it, try seeing other people and maybe you'll meet someone else.
2006-12-20 03:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think she likes you because she surprised you and came to see you. You don't do that for someone you don't care about at least some. She probably is busy with coursework, so there's not much you can do there but wait it out. Have you told her how you feel? I think this would be the best thing to do, because you'll know if she feels the same way and you hopefully won't be as sad. Try finding something else to do, that takes up a lot of brain power like a hobby or something. Maybe that will help you think about her less until you can talk to her.
2006-12-20 11:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same or what she's looking for. dont be shy with her, be confident. girls love confidence. you should just tell her how you feel! good luck!
2006-12-20 11:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by ~sasha~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋