we were good friends before we went out and i feel something for him. and i think i love him? but i don't know. like he's great to be with and he's pretty awesome and funny and i can count on him but when i hug him it doesn't feel like...
i don't know if its the fact that he's really taller then me and i;m really shorter then him but it doesn;t feel right like.. i mean i think about him a lot. but...theres something that doesn't feel right. and i'm sorta feeling something i dontknow for my ex. which is his bestfriend but we both seem to have "moved on" and we talked about the situation.
wat do i do is this normal? i wan tto give this a shot. and we seem to get along great its just so weird.
2006-12-20 03:21:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. my ex adn i don't talk anymore. he doesn;t want me interferring with his life. and well. i guess i sorta wanted to look past my the feelings i haev for my bf before we went out but then again they won;t go away jsut liekt hat so i wanted to give it a try.
we seem more to get along then my ex. liek things in common..
2006-12-20 03:29:38 · update #1
no i;m not using the guy to get abck at my ex. my ex encourged me to go out with his friend. and i encouraged him to go out with someone else.
2006-12-20 03:30:33 · update #2
we split then we spent time with eachother friedns with benefits but then... we;re not sure if we want to go back out so.. he's in love with this other girl...
and i think i;m in love too.
2006-12-20 03:31:59 · update #3
i would take a break.. but let him know u still care.. bc if u are away from him and cant keep ur mind off of him then u really care about him.. but just slow things down.. u have time.. dont think so hard..
2006-12-20 03:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Cheri. If you don't feel anything for him in a "sparky" way then you can't engineer that and you will just end up feeling more and more awkward.
If you are meant to be friends then just be friends because good friends are hard to come by. If you still have feelings for your ex then are you just using this guy (who is your ex's best friend) as a way to get back at him?
2006-12-20 11:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing your ex was the one that broke it off with you and you hooked up with his best friend out of convenience because most guys wouldn't be okay with a girl hooking up with his best friend after she has broke up with him. therefore, it seems that you were never really into your current boyfriend, he was a convenience. what you need to do is break up with your current boyfriend and be on your own for a while. you need to stand on your own two feet so to say and learn to love yourself and realize that you don't need others in your life to be happy. once you love yourself and regain your self esteem, you will be able to find a healthy mutually loving relationship. and please don't rush into any relationships because they're convenient. don't settle because in order to find that great person, you need to take your time and be patient. good luck
2006-12-20 11:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's what happens when you date your ex's friends.Are you with this guy to still be in your ex's life?Sounds like you and the current bf aren't relationship compatible.I would move on and date someone that neither of them are friends with.
2006-12-20 11:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is just a friend and that you don't have that special feeling for him. It is easy to be comfortable because he treats you right and you enjoy his company. But, you need to have that spark!
2006-12-20 11:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't feel right its not.Yes its normal to feel things for an x but remember why you split before trying to restore.
2006-12-20 11:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well..How long have you two been "together"?..It's normal for things to be just a little awkward at first...Just give it a shot & try to relax when you're with him..The awkwardness will fade after a while. =]
Good luck!
2006-12-20 11:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋