You see I am doing dancesport I'm 14 and this girl that is my dance partner....I like her a lot in school she is very popular and I think she already has a bf ...I don't know what to do to charm her...any ideas are welcomed
2006-12-20 03:20:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn a really sexy dance and then impress her in class. Or ask her to grab a bite after class to talk to her, but be a gentleman...open doors, offer to pay...you know...impress her socks off!
2006-12-20 03:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked if you loved her. Not if we had any ideas on how you could ask her out...T.T Believe it or not, dancing with her is your best bet. It's very charming. She may take it as a sport, but you have got to come up with a way to make her see that dancing with you isn't just a sport, and that it's more....If she has a boyfriend already, I wouldn't do anything yet. I'm serious. Wait till she dumps him, cause you know how some girls at that age go through guys, one every week. I don't know, but when you're dancing with her, make eye contact, and then you can choose to tell her that she has beautiful eyes. And if you guys do competitions, to 'congradulate you guys as a team' you could ask to take her out to lunch or you could buy her flowers and you could tell her about how wonderfully she did, more so than usual, and tell her that you're glad she's your dance partner. Best of luck to you, hope it all works out well. Happy Holidays.
2006-12-20 03:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i'm 14 to and I can't say I'm mega popular but i'm not hated by anyone well don't be to up front just be yourself and don't be to clingy just chill and look laid back don't stare at her and if she really is interested in you she probably won't make the first move the best way is to flirt then ask
2006-12-20 03:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a stituation like that, Simply start by asking her , What things does she like to do? what things she doesnt like? and from her answers, just simply narrow it down, and start showing her what she likes to do, you like to do as well. Be sweet but above all, understand her and listen to her. ** but dont over Act!!!*** cuz shes going to notice, just act cool, learn some hot dance moves she likes. :) to impress
2006-12-20 03:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by King K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! You want her to like you, not someone your not!!
Now as far as "do you love her"? Your 14 yrs old, I didn't know what "love" was until I was in my mid 20's. Give it time, lots of time!!!
2006-12-20 03:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be her good friend instead of only being her dance partner. things will escalate
2006-12-20 03:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Brooklyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel. find out if she does have a boyfriend first. if she does, wait till they break up, dont let her think that you are just going to go around and break up her relationships. be yourself around her!
2006-12-20 03:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by ~sasha~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and be comfortable.
2006-12-20 03:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋