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could i go were no one could find me and far away

2006-12-20 03:01:53 · 22 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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dont run away until your 18 its better and safert hun..if u run away go to friends house..

2006-12-20 03:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by annadabanna 1 · 0 0

Sounds as if you're in a situation that, for you, seems intolerable. I certainly sympathize, but I'd really need to know a lot more information in order to answer your question, such as your age, what exactly the circumstances are that you feel unable to put up with anymore--things like that.

If it's just the normal stresses of family life, such as your family not letting you do things that you want to do, then you should try to talk it out calmly--ask for their reasons why they feel that way, and listen closely. Then, without losing your temper (yeah, I know it's tough), explain why you feel that you ought to be allowed to do whatever. The key is for both you and your family to try to discuss the matter without getting all worked up about it.

Now, if we're talking about a situation where you are being physically or sexually abused--then turn to an adult you feel you can trust. A teacher at school, a counselor, a religious leader, or even the parent of one of your friends should be able to help. The point is, let someone know about it. If the first person you tell seems uninterested or unwilling to do anything, go to someone who will listen. In most states teachers and counselors are required to report abuse, so I'd start there.

Trust me, running away isn't really much of an option. Most runaways end up in even worse situations than the ones they're trying to get out of--and I'm not joking when I say predators can spot one almost instantly. You could end up in prostitution, or hooked on drugs--even dead.

Please get some help--I don't know you, but you matter to me, and I'd give the same advice to my own child.

Peace and blessings!

2006-12-20 11:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Chrispy 7 · 0 0

You should not run away, you need help. If you are in a bad situation at home why don't you call the child protective services in you area and tell them that you need help, they will do everything they can to help you work through it and place you somewhere if you really need to be taken away from the home. Think about this because if you runaway you will end up in prostitution, on drugs and possibly even dead, it is not worth it.

2006-12-20 11:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty&Brains 4 · 0 0

I ran away once. It isn't all it cracked up to be. You run away from the problems at home and encounter a whole new set of problems. Is it really that bad at home? Home is a safe place where we learn how to deal with real world problems. Work on whats going on at home and you'll be a better person for it. If your frustrated stop count to 10 then look at the big picture. Ask yourself why you want to run away...then try and figure out if there's a solution.

2006-12-20 11:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 1 · 0 0

Unless you have really big, unfixable problems with your family, running away will just give you bigger, even less fixable problems. (Let's put it another way--can you think of how to earn a living without becoming a whore?) If things are really awful in your family, you may need the support of friends in the mean-time, and you'll be alone if you run away.

Think carefully about whether your life is that awful with your family, or just bad, and whether leaving them would make it better. Without knowing more about the situation, it is hard to advise you.

2006-12-20 11:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0 0

I'm going to assume you're underage, so this is the best advice I can give you:

Don't do it! I did twice when I was young, and I promise it's not worth it. If something is happening at your home that is truly unappropriate, talk to a school councelor or someone you trust about it. Running away is not the answer. You could find yourself in a worse situation than you're in now.

If you need someone to talk to, click on my name and email me. I'll be glad to give you the best advice I can. You'll be in my thoughts. Good luck =)

2006-12-20 11:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kristina 3 · 0 0

Listen I know things may seem bad but please undestand that your family maybe doing what ever is bothering you for your own good.Since you didnt give alot of details, i will give you a small piece of advice.Its very close to Xmas.If I were you I would work things out.talk to your parents about what is bothering you....why you feel it neccessary to run away and see if you cant work it out.Too many things can happen especially if you have no place to go and no money.I hope everything works out for you

2006-12-20 11:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by hotchocolatecherry 2 · 0 0

ok, I don't want to sound like a "mother" but is that really what you want to do? Things must be REALLY bad if that's what it's come to for you. But believe me, running away is never the best answer. I wish you luck and guidance. Hopefully you will realize before it's too late.

2006-12-20 11:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Venezuela 2 · 0 0

Do,nt runaway if you can,t talk your problem out go to someone else.Go to your minister.Go to a church and talk to someone. God loves you and he want you to make the right decision. Please don,t make the wrong choice. Pray to Heavenly Father and he will help you. He know you and he love you very much. And be truthful. And maybe you can sit wth your family and talk things out. Good luck and may God keep you safe.

2006-12-20 11:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Vegas......cause what happens in Vegas; stays in Vegas.

Or there's always New York, a young dumb girl like you would be in an unmarked grave in about 2 or 3 weeks. Then no one would find you.

Grow up, it can't be that bad. It could be worse, your parents could rent you out to crackheads.

2006-12-20 11:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0 0

R U CRAZY? none of us totally get along with r family and most of us wanted to run away at one point in our lives...but if we were ever in trouble we'd turn to la familia......Some people dont have families..... Sit down and be thankful that this holiday season you can be with your family....tis the season to b greatful...give it a try....dont ruin everyone elses x-mas with your nobody loves me routine......I'm right,,,u Know It!

2006-12-20 11:08:18 · answer #11 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0 0

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