I don't think there is such thing as love at first sight.
All the time I see hot chick my mind says "damn", next thing I know is that she is pre-occupied with another sausage.
However, when I was teen I used to believe in that crap.
2006-12-20 02:52:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True love is from God. I'm a Christian, I believe in God! And for that reason I believe that there is love at first sight. God sometimes maybe lets people (like me) see right away who He intended them to love and marry. Love is different with everyone because we are all different! You can't describe true love for anyone! Everyone's experience of loving or being in love is totally unique. Because we area all unique!
I am so tired of the people that say smugly, "i believe in lust at first sight" because they don't know. I don't have problems with lust, and I have experienced that feeling of "wow, look, there he is, the guy I was created for". I just looked at his eyes from the side and I got that feeling. I wasn't looking at his body at all.
Please believe me- that even if it hasn't happened to you, or never will, it is POSSIBLE
Please do not listen to these other people. Although they mean well, I know personally that there can be real, true, lasting love (not LUST or INFATUATION! Boy am I sick of those dumb words! People just use them to sound grownup and wierd and fancy shmancy! {not to "dis" you other folks, but that's what it seems like to me :)} at first meeting- and yes, even at first sight. As to what it feels like... everyone is totally different. If you think you are in love, and you love someone very much, more than any one else, than you ARE in love- for the time being. You may, who knows, some day, find someone else who you will be able to love even more. Not because you didn't love the first one- you did, as much as you could at the time. But each new person you fall in love with you seem to be able to love more. Who can say whether we are all in love a dozen times in our life, or if we only "really" love one of those people, or if we never "truly" loved any of them? Love is different for every person, at every different time. Sometimes it makes you sad, sometime it makes you happy, sometime insecure, sometimes confident. No one knows. But if you think you're in love, then tell yourself you are and go with your emotions, whether you become mournfully melancholy or exuberantly happy. There is nothing sweeter than feeling something deeply and telling yourself you're in love, whether it's for an hour or a lifetime- or eternity.
I fell in love from first sight with someone I only met once a year ago. I still am. For many reasons in a long story, we can't contact each other, nor do we "date" so there isn't a questions of all that "faithfulness" junk. But I knew at the first second that I was made for him and someday God will see we marry and live happily ever after. Sometime I will type up the whole story and post it on every "love at first sight" page and question and blog in the whole wide internet. Again, I am not saying that love at first sight is the only right kind of love. Maybe you will hate the person you eventually fall in love with! Maybe it will take you years to gradually love them! Who knows? I am not saying that it is the only true kind of love. With some people, it may take a while to fall in love with thier soulmate. But love at first sight is so very possible! Sometimes the good Lord is kind enough to show you right away. Like he showed me. The moment I saw him standing there, I knew all about him. His character- how kind and sweet he was, how helpful and patient. And don't say I was judging a book by its cover. Later in the day I met up with him again and talked to him for five hours at that wedding reception. And my first impression- that split second thought of "this is who I was created for and am meant to marry" was strengthened. And he is in my every thought and dream. I don't give a passing thought or glance to anyone else- it's just out of the question. I’ve only seen him only 3 times over the years. It’s been so long. But I still love him! I do! It’s real! I fell in love when I was only 13. But that’s how old Juliet was, and it was love at first sight and no one questions her! No one says “Oh, Juliet was so dumb, she didn’t REALLY love romeo, she just killed herself because she THOUGHT she did”. Why should you say that about me?
There is love at first sight.
Not lust.
Not infatuation.
Not a crush.
Not a passing attraction.
Real, true, lasting, beautiful, perfect love.
Believe.
2006-12-21 06:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by nemo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in love at first sight. I do believe in attraction and lust at first sight, but not love. Love is built on a foundation of friendship, and that takes time to build.
2016-05-23 00:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ethel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. and I am with him now. I met him 12 yrs ago a few months before I got married to the wrong guy. Well we had such a connection that we always kept in tact. Now as of this past May we are dating. He is my soulmate. We love each other unconditionally. I am not ashamed of any flaws around him. I can be me.
2006-12-20 02:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, Dharma and Greg are characters on a TV show.
This is what happens when you give yourself away without giving the relationship TIME. Sorry you got burned, but at least now you know.
Occasionally you can fall in lust right away and have it develop into real love as you get to know that person. But it takes time for love to grow.
2006-12-20 02:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally believe in love at first sight. When I first saw my man he was standing on the bridge of his boat with his shirt off, the sun was shining on his beautiful chest and it was like birds lifted my heart out of my chest and carried it to him. Just thinking about it now gives me the same feeling!
2006-12-20 03:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there is. Just look at Dharma and Greg.
2006-12-20 02:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by beeotch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but i believe in lust at first sight
2006-12-20 02:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still do believe. It's happened to me!
2006-12-20 04:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really because you don't now them that well.
2006-12-20 03:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ciiindy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahah no i dont believe
2006-12-20 04:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋