I have been chatting on line with this girl for months and want to meet her ..... But she told me what she does for a living and I am so shocked..... She said that she is a striper / Pole dancer......
Dont get me wrong she is one hot little kitten.... But she has a northen accent which irritates me and I dont think I could cope with the whole people seeing my g/f naked.....
What would you do....?
2006-12-20 02:21:48 · 38 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry .... It is meant to say would you date a striper....?
2006-12-20 02:22:22 · update #1
I know Champange read above......
2006-12-20 02:25:53 · update #2
Been out with a stripper (male) and a got into trouble so many times with fighting!
2006-12-20 02:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
I don't know about dating a striper. Isn't that a fish? However, dating a stripper...stay away dude! The life isn't all its cracked up to be, especially if you are the jealous type. Been there bro, and all I can say is worship her from a far and go see her dance, but DO NOT get into a relationship with her. It's bad news!!!
2006-12-20 02:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by Breaking hearts since 1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not take this the wrong way, Exotic dancing -- is a job and it pays the bills. A man who dates an exotic dancer has to be totally secure with his self! In saying that he can deal with his gf dancing nude in front of an audience and then be confident when his gf comes home. If you have a problem now occupation wise, then she is not the girl for you .... and that's just being honest.
Good Luck!
2006-12-20 02:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. I dated an "entertainer" of that nature a while back. Most of them are nuts and many are actually gay (truth). But why would you not date someone because of their job per se. If you can't cope with people seeing her naked, then dont date her. Your jealosy and insecurity will doom your relationship. If you're confident enough in yourself and her, go for it. Alot of fringe benefits, bro....
By the way, if she says she's a stripper, she's probably not. She may be telling you that to keep you interested. Meet her first.
2006-12-20 02:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by gdf888 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude !!!
She has millions of guys like you lining up on her yahoo messenger, keep dreaming !
You are shocked because she is a stripper? Well what if she told you she was a Mortician ?
Get over it and move on she will paint the road with your emotions and your mind will turn to mush if you keep chatting with her for months on end.
2006-12-20 02:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question. You said you wont be able to deal with other blokes seeing her naked and you dont like her accent....what more can you say. If you really like this girl then these factors wouldnt matter or if they did, you would talk to her about the whole stripper thing.
2006-12-20 02:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Lottie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think most of use would be a little shocked,but it cant be wrong or why else are there lots of other girls in commit ed relationships doing it,may be upsetting thinking about the thought of it,your not in any way out of order
2006-12-20 02:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes a very strong person to be able to go out with a stripper so if you don't think you can handle it don't go there. There's no point in going into something you know you can't handle.
2006-12-20 02:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a stripper once - great fun for a while. Could never introduce her to my mother so the relationship was purely physical. Great fun all the same. I would recommend going for it.
2006-12-20 03:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by hugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well deff not, but im also a girl so obviously i wouldnt be going out with a female striper but if it was a male striper still deff not! =)
2006-12-20 02:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by ☮Dano922☮ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Northern accent is annoying! No way! That's a petty thing to say. But dating a stripper, not a good idea!
2006-12-20 02:24:21 · answer #11 · answered by marie1257 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋