i am living with a guy we have plan to get married but the guy's father was in overseas he told me that unless his father return before he can marry me because he want to introduce me to his father but you know what when the father came to Ghana the father doesnt want me to get married to his son but the guy's mother really like me and the siblings too but the father doenst like me because the step sister has said many things about me when he was overseas.this means that the father has divorce the guys mother long time ago and he is now marrying to another wife so he said i dont have good behaviour but all was not true even i havent spoken with the lady before but she said many things about me to the guys father so he said he would not allow us to get married but we both love ourselves what should we do, the guy's father would be returning back without agreeing for us to get married then we have to quit. so please should we marry or we should quit the relationship.
2006-12-20 02:18:47 · 8 answers · asked by stistimatically 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say that you love each other, right? Why are you asking this question? Of course you should get married! You guys are gonna marry each other, not the father!
2006-12-20 02:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by khool_breeze_krazy82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether the man would marry you or not is not the father's decision but his, after all he is the one courting you and would be the one to live with you and not the father, if he really loves you and is a real man(not a boy, daddy's boy) then he knows the right thing to do. he should be able to stand up for his heart, except if, as an african his father is not happy that you have started living with him even b4 marrige, you know africans forbid that lifestyle, so the problem could be yours. But notwithstanding your man ought to be a real man and not daddy's boy
cheers.
2006-12-20 02:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont auit the relationship!!! you just are going to have to invest some more time into it. when the father is around he is going to have a predetermined idea of how you are going to be. well, sorry to say it but you have to prove otherwise by showing him you are a proper woman and that you love his son very much. show him you love his son and i think everything else will work out. love can overcome obstacles if you work at it...
2006-12-20 02:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by We never change do we??? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the father it is always best to see where his head is coming from. if he still dosen't who is he to tell you two what to do. you are in love and thats a rare thing in this world keep triing his father can't stop you.
2006-12-20 02:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never give up your love. if he really cares 4 u he would marry u in the end even if his father disagrees.
2006-12-20 02:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell the father you are not sleeping with him but his son. He can give a blessing or miss a blessing.
2006-12-20 02:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love the guy? If you love him, then you should wait and see what happens.
2006-12-20 02:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can honestly say if he really loves you he'd do what he wants not what other people wants(hes a grown man)
2006-12-20 02:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by blue eyed cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋