I am so tired of talking to guys online that boast about their accomplishments and how they work out and how athletic they are and how important they are but they still seem to be online looking for someone just like I am. I would think someone would have grabbed them up by now. Are they just that wonderful that no one is good enough for them or are they not what they make themselves out to be? I have never came across such a large percentage of arrogant men as I have online. What is with these guys?
2006-12-20 02:17:56 · 9 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These guys are not young guys, they are older men in their 40's and 50's and many of them have alot of baggage too.
2006-12-20 02:19:36 · update #1
These guys are not young guys, they are older men in their 40's and 50's and many of them have alot of baggage too.
2006-12-20 02:19:37 · update #2
Lawsy, lawsy! Who's arrogant here? You find something to criticize about every guy whose ad you see. And what do you mean, they're only looking "for someone just like I am"? What are you?
Anyway, maybe the guy, being an older guy, is just sensitive about how he looks and is only trying to reassure you he's not a basket case.
2006-12-20 02:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of it is because the Internet allows so much secrecy that a guy (or a girl) can pretend to be anything they want to be. Likely alot of the guys you are getting this from are married or 100% the opposite of what they tell you. Many people use the internet to make themselves look good. It is rare that you find a person online that tells the whole truth about themselves. Like me, see, I am a rocket scientist and male model in my spare time. I light candles with 100 dollar bills and I can run 40 miles without stopping. OK, so ALL of that was lies :P
2006-12-20 02:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, but I have often wondered the same thing. I keep thinking that they should have a woman if they are so great. But then again I know that a lot of my female friends have profiles posted out there and they are great women, so I guess it's possible. But the difference is that the women don't seem to go on and on about how great they are, they just state the facts. We may never know.
2006-12-20 02:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Reallyfedup, lol, would you be attracted to someone who stated that they were middle-aged, recently unemployed, divorced, balding and overweight?!?
Seriously, I think the guys are just trying to accentuate their positives so that people will chat with them. I think that is just human nature for both men and women. Now, I am sure that some of them go "a little" overboard in their description, but again they just want to seem appealing so that someone will chat with them.
2006-12-20 02:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend they are lonely as hell but won't admit it. They are so stuck on themselves and feel upset that they have noone in their lives. They want relationships but can't find the right one. Girl a man wants to always think they are in complete control, now don't they? Ignore how they talk and get one of them. They may be trash talkers. But believe me they only talk that way because they are scared they will live their lives alone and men want a women to think that they are always in control. Girl let them think what they want to and grab one for your very own. And watch him try to gain allthe credit and say, hey man look at the beautiful woman I have met on the internet. I made her mine man. Yeah man I just had to have her man. Men are so stupid girl and I bet you will doing all the getting, I say go for it, their just lonely stupid men. Men will always be men girl, get one.
2006-12-20 02:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe they are arrogant. Have you actually met any of them ? I'd reserve judgement until I got to know them.
2006-12-20 02:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by gdf888 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably because they are arrogant pricks who have been through everyone in their city. Or they just haven't found the right girl yet.
2006-12-20 02:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by chrystalbryeans 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No there prob not that great most of what they say is most likely BS.
2006-12-20 02:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by Cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have no confidence whatsoever.
2006-12-20 05:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋