and told my freind so who i can believe and how i know she doesnt lie ??
2006-12-20 02:08:08 · 12 answers · asked by persianooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does it really matter? The important thing is that she's with YOU, right NOW, and wants to be with you. Who cares who she was with before?
2006-12-20 02:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look, she saw it made you mad so she stopped talking to them but that doesn't mean they aren't still friends. It means she doesn't want to upset you. Is she "doing" something with them that she doesn't want you to know about?? Probably not. Don't be so paranoid. The fact is there are both men and women on the planet and we have a right to be friends with both. You guys are not married. I will tell you I was in a similar situation. We were not in college but we did have a long distance relationship. He and his friends talked about his one female friend and she called him a couple of times when I was visiting and he never told her I was there visiting. I finally went off on him and he never mentioned her again but I know they still talked from time to time because I saw a picture of her dog on his cell phone. I was going to say when did you take that?!!! but I didn't say anything. I would suggest this -- next time you visit her see if she will introduce you to her friends. Be light hearted about it and ask if they want to go out for a drink with you guys or something. See what she says. Good luck.
2016-05-22 23:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have the same vocabulary but a different dictionary. Let me explain. She may say she had two relationships; what does that mean? Does it mean she has had sex with two people (she may not feel casual sex is a relationship ie. one night stand). If she went out with a guy once she may not consider that a relationship. If she went out with a guy 30 times and had sex with him 15 times she may consider that a relationship. You may have to first define terms and go from there. You must be using the same measuring stick when you measure an object. Remember, Bill Clinton didn't consider oral sex sex. And he redefined "is". She may make a good lawyer.
2006-12-20 02:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ron P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
does it really matter if she had 2 or 3, would it make a difference, maybe she doesn't like the guy, and doesn't want to think about ever being with him. There are lies and little white lies, this sounds like the later and I wouldn't make a big thing of it.
2006-12-20 02:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by joe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her past worry about her future right now she's spending time with you so let the past be and futhermore don't listen to what a friend has to say. She may be lying but its up to you to believe or not
2006-12-20 02:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her definition of "relationships" are differant from yours. She could have dated alot of dudes but only really connected with a few.
You should just ask her. If you are in a "Relationship" then you need to communicate with her and stop all the he said she said bullsh*t.
2006-12-20 02:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Prof. Timpo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she means two serious relationships. like i dont count the first guy i kissed as a relationship, we were "dating" for 2 months (in 10th grade) and went to the movies and the arcade.
2006-12-20 02:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what your friend says or anybody else says. Do you like the girl or not?
2006-12-20 02:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this sounds like you belive more your "friends" then your girl but if you really love her i dont think she will lie to you iam not sure about it cause i dont know her.
2006-12-20 02:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ana V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you need to talk about it to friends. Is it like a notch on your pecker.
2006-12-20 02:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋