and as soon as you saw a picture of them and they weren't what you were expecting did you start to treat them differently?
I know someone that this happened too! Why is it that people have to judge other people by their looks? They say that beauty is only skin deep and yes I know the rest of the saying... ugly is to the bone, but people (men and women both) have no control over how their face is going to look! unless they have plastic surgery and why should it have to come down to plastic surgery to be excepted by others?
2006-12-20 01:50:24 · 14 answers · asked by Dr. D. AKA Evil Woman 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't understand it either. Most of my friends look like me. I am not what I would call pretty in the face either.Most people name their best physical attributes.I would say my eyes. Most people say that about me. But I am beautiful from the inside out. As far as plastic surgery. I would prefer someone who is natural. Unless is medically or psychologically necessary for that person. If I had money to do that. Would I ? No.
2006-12-20 02:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've not had that problem but I do know that 90 percent of people nowadays are so concerned with looks and how the person they are with makes them look they've forgotten about the most important thing, the love that comes with a person. Girls are so into looks they starve themselves to make sure they look like they should, get surgeries to make their man happy. Well I say if a man doesn't like you for who you are then there is no reason to stay with him.
2006-12-20 01:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jesse's Girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I started a friendship with someone and when i saw a picture of them i didn't thik they looked all that bad, but i would have continued the friendship anyway.
I sent them some photos of me and was lucky enough to have them think i wasn't unattractive.
We are still good friends.
2006-12-20 01:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by malcolmg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, so do no longer tell her= it quite is a foul thought, except she's made it certainly clean that she's in love with you (and that i'm guessing that she's no longer). Do ward off her for somewhat- make her omit you, relatively. have faith me, it will paintings, plus you elect a while to clean your head and stuff. additionally, it quite is been reported that to recover from one woman, you ought to attempt getting below ten different ladies, in case you already know what I mean... yet heavily, circulate on. refer to all varieties of females- there are basically plenty obtainable, and you tremendously lots have your finding out on. She's no longer likely to alter her opinion of you in one day, so take the time faraway from her to be a various, greater suitable person, date around for somewhat, and then come back into her existence. Then with a bit of luck, she'll understand which you're diverse then in the past, and consistent with possibility she's involved in this new you. Edit: i found out that I relatively reported "forget approximately approximately her for a good at the same time as", and that i do no longer possibly mean basically that. i think of you ought to spend far much less time together with her, and don't refer to her as lots (play it as once you're "busy")- besides, does not she have a boyfriend that she will spend time with in any case? do no longer thoroughly end the relationship, basically be greater "out of attain". it quite is a hard balancing act- you have to be there for her yet no longer unavoidably consistently be round her perpetually, yet i for my area will no longer be able to permit you already know the thank you to try this.
2016-10-15 07:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by troesch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't bother me. I have seen pics of people on here and if they are funny and cool who cares what they look like? I'm here to have a laugh, its not a beauty contest. If someone quits talking to someone b/c of looks, they were looking for something sexual in the first place.
2006-12-20 01:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because that's the way we are. I personally expect a pic/webcam before I chat with a stranger just because I like to associate an attitude with a face!
2006-12-20 01:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by Professor Maddie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have tried to start friendship with some in YA but so far have nt succeded.
but yes looks do matter when u want to meet them too after ntro thru YA .
2006-12-20 01:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have many friends from YA and I like them all, regardless of looks
2006-12-20 01:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jim G 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have actully and we talk like every day almost and we have been friend since like july
2006-12-20 01:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by ♥I know these things♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because some people are shallow, that's why..
i tried talking to one individual but didn't much care for what i found out..and it had nothing to do with looks!
2006-12-20 01:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋