I want to make love with my girlfriend...but my parents told me to do it when we grow up but not now...why can adults make love as many times they desire but we kids can't?
2006-12-20 01:49:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because it's illegal for kids.
2006-12-20 01:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
read your question
Adults are responsible, well not all of them
kids are not as responsible or ready for added responsibleity of a child
now my sister in law just had a baby, and even though she is 22 and not technicaly a kid she is in deep. her and boyfriend conceived the child while they were broken up and just being friends with a past and needing some benifits. now they are both living with their own parents, neither have a vehicle, she has no job, he has a crap job, she whines about depresion all the time and does not want the baby, he says he will fight for full custody but he only takes the baby when he feels like it or his mom want to watch it. it is very sad for the child. of course my wife wants to take the child.
now here we are responsible loving parents of 2 great kids, we like most young parents struggle with money but have a nice home we own and make do and always have what we NEED but not always what we WANT. we don't go out partying or where ever as we have to make sacrifieces which we are happy to do, are you? now we want another child (she wants the nephew, i want my own) and even worse while her troubled sister and loser boyfriend are tossing this poor child back and forward we lost our son at 3 months into pregnancy, FAIR? i think not
there is more to sex than just the deed it self, are you ready for kids, disease, medical expenses, medical conditions? think about it like you are an adult
i know when i was younger i felt the same way, but know that i am a little older, married, kids i can see it differently
2006-12-20 10:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Acee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because there's a chance that you'll regret it. Your brain isn't fully developed until you're in your early twenties!
A lot of times when kids start early they don't do things right, the don't take the proper precautions...
It's just not smart! You need to wait until you've found the right person, and you two are both in the right time and place in your relationship. If you wait until you're absolutely ready think of how much it will mean to that person that you gave your entire self to her?
I was eighteen when I lost my virginity. And it was right after my boyfriend asked me to marry me and we moved in together. And I don't regret it at all... because I waited for that moment.
2006-12-20 09:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but kids do not have the moral or mental capacity to fully appreciate and comprehend the concept of lovemaking and love itself. Furthermore, kids are not capable of handling the potential responsibility that comes with having children.
2006-12-20 09:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by CPT Jack 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is something that should only be shared by two mature consenting adults. Don't be so worried about becoming sexually active so early in life. You have lots of other life lessons to learn first. There is plenty of time for sex later in life when you are truely in love. You only have one first time.
2006-12-20 09:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ikkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because kids aren't mature enough to know what they're doing and don't know the consequences of makin love.They also aren't in a stable relationship and probablly dont know how to handle something like getting pregnant, or getting an STD....and don't know how to work it....lol
2006-12-20 09:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by Rockie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'KIDS' lack the emotional value and don't know ALL the consequences of their actions. Then there are some adults with the same problem.
Wait until you are of legal age in your state of residence, use rubbers and birth control. STDs are nasty things and some will kill you.
2006-12-20 09:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by LifeRyder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see I believe that it's called teenage pregnancy!
Your parents are right by telling you to wait until you are a grown up for the simple fact that they are watching out for you. You have your whole life a head of you, don't mess it up by coming a father at to young of an age.
2006-12-20 09:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. D. AKA Evil Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because adults are, by many means, more capable of raising children and kids are not
2006-12-20 09:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ma. Fda G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 12 & you need to have some respect for yourself & your parents. Adults can have as much sex as they damn well please because they are mature, independent, experinced people. Can you maintain yourself, your gf & a baby? I'm sure you can't. Everything you own belongs to your parents. Even that underwear you're wearing, so until you can afford such things & be self sufficient, I suggest you masturbate or put it on ice!
2006-12-20 10:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Lue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u get to be kidding .. u r kid.. we are adult... adult allowed because they are adult and Ur not allowed because Ur a kid.
adult are responsible people . but kids they are not.. u need to understand the meaning of making love.. OR sex... sex is not a essay thing... u may get sick u may get disease.. and trust me u don't need this now.. stay with Ur GF... love her love u.. and when u r ready .. do it safely
2006-12-20 09:53:51 · answer #11 · answered by I_belong_to_me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋