no!!!!forgeting her is not a option!!!i`d rather kill myself and i`m serious!!!ideeas..i`m 16
2006-12-20 01:41:55 · 14 answers · asked by restlessguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you probably wont want to hear this, but time heals.. I was 16 once (and not that long ago either) know *exactly* how you feel, but you'll move on and meet new people and you'll feel better trust me.. just take it one day at a time!
2006-12-20 01:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Error Child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not forget her, you will probably carry a sad feeling with you for a long time to come. The good news is that you are 16. At that age you cannot (timewise) have had enough relationship experience to know what you want from a partner. Use the next years to find out what's right for you and what isn't. So, while forgetting her is not an option for you, neither should killing yourself be one. You WILL get through this as billions of people have before you, and believe me, I know you probably don't really want to hear all this. Just try to use the opportunity to explore. Good luck!
2006-12-20 09:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Julia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This I can relate too. My first love killed himself when i was 17. We were supposed to be married. You will probably never forget her but it takes time to get over someone that you love. I'm 22 now and I still think of him sometimes. You will probably do that for the rest of your life. But you can get over her and find someone else. It will just take some time for you to be able to find someone else. People say you can't fall in love that early in life but i've been there and I know you can. You just need to take some time, think about what went wrong and try to tell yourself that it was for the best. Later in life you will realize that everything happens for a reason and once you find that one person you are supposed to be with you will know that getting over her was the best thing you could do. I met my husband and now I realize that he is the one I am supposed to be with and if that hadn't happened I may have not met him.
2006-12-20 09:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jesse's Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you just have to forget her. she is now a speck in the dust, a spot on the mirror. You may never forget her but once you find another person, you will have new joy. Nobody forgets their true love. It's just a fact in life. you have to move on. She has probley forgotten you already so you have to forget her. Life is moving. You can't just sit in a dark corner and weep over a girl. You have to get back out there are live life to the fullest.
2006-12-20 09:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by ☼sunshine☼ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At sixteen you are just getting to the age where every love is the only love. The cure comes when you meet someone else and beleive it or not you will get over her. You don't need to forget her but you will get over it. It happens to every teen and you are no exception.
2006-12-20 09:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by rtuckinc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to never forget someone, but you can get over it. distract yourself and keep busy--time heals all! don't be silly and say you'd rather kill yourself. the most important relationship you have is with yourself. love yourself first and others will love you as well!
2006-12-20 09:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by should be working 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if u search personals, chat, look around, stare if you want and smile at people in public, YOU WILL FORGET HER, I PROMISE. I give you uh, 1 month if u follow these instructions faithfully at least every other day.
2006-12-20 09:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please sweety dont take your life please.i will tell you my storie.my husband and i were married for 33 years and now we are seperate since 3 years.me to i wanted to take my life and done 5 attemps trying to kill my self,because i try to take my own life,well now i have problems with the inside of my body and in my head,i destroy lost of cells in my head,i went true a big big depressions wen me and my ex separated.its not worded to take your life.because there always somebody out there waiting for you or me.now i have a boyfriend and we are in are 50ths,he is so wonderful for me he treat me like a Princess and he nows what i been true,am still in depression take pills now,but my boyfriend always support me.he is not my ex husband,but i really love my boyfriend we do lost of things to gether.if i would of take my life i woul`t of meet him.where not living together we inch have are apartment,and i like it like that.oh yes dont forget i have 2 beautiful daughters and 5 grand-childrens and dont forget my boyfriend PHILL.IHAD TO HAVE PROFESSIONNEL HELP AND STILL GET IT,if i would of take my own life well i woul`t have meat Phill,and today i am happy women i thank GOD almost every moment i talk with HIM,and GOD is always there for me and all my Docters to,one day at the time now.please sweet heart dont take your life please please............................IF YOU TAKE YOUR LIFE MAYBE YOU WILL MISS AND THEN YOU WILL BE A VEGETAL OR YOU MAY BE PAROLYSE,AND YOU WONT REMEBER YOUR ONW FAMILY. xo
2006-12-20 14:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by cilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus go an date somebody else good luck an i c that tha girl dat u can't forget must've been someone really special
2006-12-20 09:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Restricted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need time to get over it.. you still have a long way to go and will meet a lot more girls who will be better than the girl that broke your heart.
2006-12-20 09:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋