I met a guy who lives in another state and whenever he's in town he calls/text me all the time and will stay at my place. I really like him but i don't know how he feels about me. We talk about a lot and get along great. I think that i gave him the wrong impression when i sort of made sex an issue and told him that i was mad that he did not "try me" when he stayed at my place one night even though we have had sex before. I don't want him to think that all i want from him is sex,but maybe that's all he wants from me? I mean he doesn't call when he's not in town and that's a classic sign of just a sexual realationship right? Any advice?
2006-12-20 01:27:00 · 11 answers · asked by 1 bad chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forgot to mention that his mother stays in the same state as i do and he travels an hour out of his way to come to my place
2006-12-20 01:32:44 · update #1
Have you made an effort to call/text him when he is out of town. You can't blame him for not calling when you don't call either. Be clear with your intentions. If you just want sex then say it, if you want more than tell him that. Don't give mixed signals.
2006-12-20 01:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to like your so-called friend is using for a free place to stay when he comes to town. As far as the sex he's only giving you what you want. If you didn't then you would never have done it the first time. When he comes to town you should have him stay at a hotel so you'll stop being used. You also may consider not accepting his calls and offers to free load off of you when he's in town since he can't or doesn't call you when he's not.
2006-12-20 01:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't call when he is not in town them he obviously doesn't care about you. You make it convenient for him to have a place to stay. Maybe you should think about how many other people he might "visit" when he travels. You need to find someone who wants to be with you all the time..not just when they are traveling thru. You should not subject yourself to someone who doesn't treat you how you want. Making an open door for him only hurts yourself in the process.
2006-12-20 01:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by alymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he's just using you whnever he comes in town. Me personally I think you should just find someone that appreciates you and that doesn't just call you when he needs a place to stay or for a booty call.
2006-12-20 01:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him why he dosen't call when he's not in town and ask him what type of relationship he sees you two as and then tell him how you feel and let him know where you want your relationship to be at. That's my advice. Hope it helps.
2006-12-20 01:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using your place as a free hotel when he's in town. Direct him to the nearest hotel or charge him the outgoing rates of what a hotel would charge.
2006-12-20 01:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see what he wants. You guys need to figure out what your doing. Right now, it just sounds like a booty call.
2006-12-20 01:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Classic sign indeed hun
2006-12-20 01:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHC OHC OHC...Open Honest Communication..
2006-12-20 01:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has some other primary relationship and you are the frosting on the cake.
2006-12-20 01:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋