2006-12-20 00:47:04 · 41 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try and have sex with any of her decent looking family members or
"close"friends and then play the two up against each other, then just sit back and watch the friendship fall apart, it may sound sick but it will help.
2006-12-20 01:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by matrix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you have preferred her to have lied to you and lead you on? You didn't elaborate enough on your question, so I am assuming you asked her out and she said no. What is so wrong about that? You should be happy she was honest with you. Nobody likes being rejected but you know what..it happens. Like I said, at least she was honest with you but I could have it all wrong because you didn't give any details. If this is the case, move on. Theres no need to be spitfull. Its like when girl goes to a club/bar/party and a guy trys to talk to her, she says no or doesnt want to be bother...all of the sudden the guy is screaming that she was ugly anyway and cursing her out just because she told him the truth. Why do guys do this? I think you may be doing the same thing, like I said move on...Im sure you will find a girl that wants to be with you and you can be happy. Good Luck!
2006-12-20 00:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by SexyMommy2B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the answer, But it's lodged in your brain, as a normal response for defense. You can't let anger control you or she win's , and just by you wanting revenge on her shows that she is controlling you and your thought's.. Honey don't even waste your time on her. She is no friend of your's and if you are hurt and it sounds like you are, just try your hardest to put it behind you, move on, find decent people to share your time with, don't waste another minute of thought on this person. Just think about it is she really worth it.. I know it's easier said than done, but if you really think about it, she will be the big loser in the end..
Best of luck to you.
Great Question
2006-12-20 00:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this girl must've hurt you badly for you to want to take revenge on her. Getting your revenge is not important but freeing yourself from hurt feelings is. How does one do this ? I think you need to watch these thoughts and feelings as they arise and not get swept away by them. Just watch them all through the day. In time they will heal completely. That is what I do. I think you need to read Eckhart Tolle. There are others too but he will be good for a start. What is important is for you to be happy again.
2006-12-20 01:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by alec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You break away all contact with her. If she was your friend, give her the cold shoulder. This will both help ease the pain inside, and give her at least some anxiety. Don't listen to what she says; ignore her emails and phone calls. If she calls you and you answer, don't say anything...just leave the phone there for her to keep talking to no one.
Within a few days (the time varies), she'll say sorry and want to become friends.
However, because she rejected you once, it wouldn't be good to ask her out again and break your heart again.
2006-12-20 00:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by i6am6satan6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go- the more you show hurt,interest,need for revenge- just shows her she's got you in a grip and can still hurt you. Go find yourself a beautiful,fun, nice gal and dump the other in the memory box called "learning experience andwasted time". Don't give her the satisfaction as they say---
2006-12-20 00:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and move on. That is enough revenge for her to see you move on without blinking or batting your eyes. You try anything else it will prove what a nutty person you really were to start with and how right she was in not dating you after all.
2006-12-20 00:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be the better person and let it go. Revenge is bittersweet and if you don't understand that - it is never as good as you think and usually leaves a bad taste in your mouth, figuratively speaking.
2006-12-20 00:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by A B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is either to find yourself a new girl... makes em' jealous.... or get so into something and make it work for yourself that she feels really crappy... like she hindered you from doing this thing that your so happy with now :)
2006-12-20 00:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't.
You show her, and everyone else (including other women) that you are a man of dignity, honour and class.
I'm sorry that you were rejected by her. Girls should not have to continue dating someone that they decide they don't love, but ladies, there is a way to do it that leaves the dignity of the man intact.
2006-12-20 00:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to live a good and happy life. Flush it.
2006-12-20 00:48:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋