What are some signs that this guy only see's me as a booty call and not something more?
2006-12-20 00:42:40 · 10 answers · asked by 1 bad chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me see, if he does not take you out on "dates", doesn't treat you really nicely in public, if all he is interested in is sex - gosh you don't have to be a Rocket Scientist to figure this one out.
Try removing sex from the equation and see what happens - the next time he comes around, suggest playing a game of Scrabble or Monopoly or something and see how he reacts to that one!
So, the way to find out if you are a booty call, is to stop being one (I think you already knew the answer to this one!)
In future, make sure that you establish a loving, caring relationship with a man BEFORE having sex with him, that way you will be less likely to just be a booty call.
2006-12-20 00:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You guys sleep together everytime you're around each other
2. He doesn't take you out i.e, movies, bowling.
3. He's very secretive.
4. He rarely answers his phone.
5. He only calls during booty call hours (too early for breakfast, too late for dinner).
6. You've never met his friends, family, etc.
7. All his friends are users.
2006-12-20 08:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by cece_reed2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW... think you need to trust your inner voice on this one.
Does he call you late at night? Does he put his hands on you the moment he sees you. Does he either leave after he gets what he wants or doesn't want to talk after HE is satisfied? Does he carry a conversation with you, get involved with what you are interested in? Does he show any interest in you at all other than getting physical?
2006-12-20 08:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mind being a booty call, you are OK, if you are not OK you are definitely being used
2006-12-20 08:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered your own question i think you know you are a booty call
2006-12-20 08:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he never takes you out in public
he never calls other than to have sex
he doesn't care how you think or feel about anything
you are always changing your schedule to fit around his needs..
just a few
2006-12-20 08:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he only call you when he wants a piece? That would be a big tipoff.
2006-12-20 08:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Levi F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not asking things like "where is this relationship going" ?
doing it with you often, but not talking too much about stuff besiides it
and so on, and so on
2006-12-20 08:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he just has sex with u and doesnt care about ur feelings.
2006-12-20 09:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by Cavegirl948 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like no commitment to a future, no talking of "us".......just him.
2006-12-20 08:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by purefire41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋