2006-12-20 00:32:39 · 18 answers · asked by KELLY G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He violated your trust. He disrespected you. If those things don't bother you, I guess you can stay with him. Do you respect him? Why would you be with someone that shows such little consideration for you?
2006-12-20 00:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool I like this question, I have never cheated, yet I can say that I have been cheated on. I agree with almost everone here, that the trust is gone and will never fully return, and that once they do it they do it again, and again. I do have to add something else although --- cheating is usually about just 1 thing, Sex ! So I have to say that something is missing / wrong in that relationship to make someone "cheat". In my case it was 50% my fault, I was not being good to her, I do not mean that I was not giving her sex, or that the sex was bad, I mean that I was not giving her the attention that I used to give her, and I, as many people do, took our ralationship for granted, and stopped doing all those special little things that I used to do for her.
I have learned now that you can't take things for granted, that I must remember as to why we are togather, and to always do those little things like when we first met.
Now -- do you stay with that person or not, well I myself did not stay with her, because that trust was gone, I do not hate her because she taught me something, and I took that and have used that with the relationship that I am in now, so I guess that -- by her cheating has made me more understanding as to what needs to be done to make a relationship really work !!
2006-12-20 08:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by madman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! But it's just your boy friend, and the relationship continues
and the marriage comes.... This boy friend you gave a second chance to figures he can cheat again. ( she will not leave me; we are married and besides she was understanding the first time and she knew how i was when she married me...). NO! If you can't trust your man, he will always be up to seeing how far he can push you by recurrence of the same behaviors. A cheater to me is a person who is out of order with themselves and everybody else around them. Deceiving - A wolf in sheep clothing- A bird in a cage - Fish in the water. You do not need that you have set the standards for yourself and stick to your values hold tight to what your know to be true and honest and fair keep pressing my sister. LLL.
2006-12-20 09:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by jonzie007/babygirljones/deb/debb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you start a new diet to lose weight, and then you cheat on your diet, it is usually just a free for all after that.
Any guy is a huge emotional risk--they are prone to cheating (as a gender). If he cheats once and gets away with it, he will fall again.
Read the book "He's Just Not That Into You". You will love it--you will be empowered to take control of your emotional/relational life.
2006-12-20 08:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by sixgun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl above me is right... if you want it to keep repeating and idk that not me though i always stay with them because u think that u love them soo much and that it was a one time mistake but im learning through all of me experiences.. i just found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me last night and im only 15..soo yeah i guess see if it happens again its a real heartbreaker especially when u love them and they say they i love you too and then they screw up and if you break up with them there gone forever
2006-12-20 08:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by *[Hanna]* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really can't say it depends on how emotionally attached i am but you need to realize that there is something missing from your relationship and try to find out what is wrong and how the 2 of you can fix it because a relationship consist of two people and if your the only one willing to try it makes no since because your just likely to get more hurt move on then best of luck and happy holidays
2006-12-20 08:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by tease :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no...once a cheat always a cheat... How will you ever trust him? Trust and honesty is about 80% of what it takes in a relationship... He failed..move on..
2006-12-20 08:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Not only will he do it again, eventually, but you would never get that mental picture of him with "her" out of your head to have a normal relationship. And you would never trust him fully again. Cheats are also liars. They have to be, don't they?
2006-12-20 08:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL F*CKING NO dump his *** he broke trust that is unforgiveable no matter what he says dont trust him ever again if he cheated on you once he'll cheat again
2006-12-20 08:42:01 · answer #9 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, more than likely they will cheat again because they figure, you are dumb enough that they can get away with it.
2006-12-20 08:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋