my husband and i have a very happy marriage but the two of us are very stress about his parents.my husband is an only child.my in laws expect us to 'obey' them all the time.we couldn't give our opinion,we couldn't do anything without their permission.we couldn't even move out from their house.we did our best to be like what they want us to be but they think we have not given enough to them.recently my in laws start pointing fingers to me saying that i'm meeting someone else and leaving my husband,which is not true. we just couldn't be too PERFECT. we are not GOD.so please anyone out there,please help us.
2006-12-20 00:32:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-12-20 04:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about the last thing.....Well if your happy with each other than thats one good thing happening i think this is a complicated sitaution...But i dont get it your are not slaves of anybody just leave the house or is it you are financially depended on them....Well thats the solution.
But to de stress just have S*x your tensions will be lost for few hrs.
2006-12-20 08:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know U feel out there I went threw the same things with my parents but there peoblems were off and on.
Sometimes people say stuff like that becasue their afraid their going to loose someting specail like your husband or maybe she's mad because your now his life.
Sometimes when people act like that you haft to let it roll and keep your head up. Your a strong women U can get threw it!
You and God know the truth don't let her mess with you.
I'm not saying to let her walk all over you I'm just saying you need to just let it go, she's not worth the pain or time.
2006-12-20 08:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Tasha Bieber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you guys should not look back. Pick up your things and make the move. It may cause conflict between you and his parents for a while but that is fine. That is what having in-laws is all about, think Monster-in-law. They will get over it.
2006-12-20 09:09:11 · answer #4 · answered by kayla_lopez_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all it sounds like they are very controlling,second they are probly saying those things because they dont like you,all they see is you took there only son out of the house where they can't controll him anymore. and they don't like that but they need to realize you guys are grown and are making desicions on your own now, maybe you guys need to have a talk with them but then again thats if they will listen. or just stay to yourself for awhile.
okay good luck Merry Christmas!! Happy New Year!!!
2006-12-20 08:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the same thing happening here. but in one thing i happy that my husband trust me. if ur husband trust u than don't bother about ur in laws. just sit & talk to ur mother in law or father in law who ever listen to u. tell them about what ur feeling & the stress ur going through. also tell them u care about them like ur own parents . i usally take them to shopping make food for them
2006-12-20 08:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by wE r MuScUlAr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to completley seperate from them they are your husbands parents and they love you both. my suggestions would be to confront them about there controlling isues tell them your adults and can make decisions for yourself...then move
2006-12-20 15:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by TX Qtpie'11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move far away from your in-laws.
2006-12-20 08:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by WyoHunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move away from them, change your phone number
2006-12-20 08:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋