The foster kids left today... my heart is broken. I can't stop crying.
2006-12-20 00:14:11 · 12 answers · asked by blackbug2004 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Jokes & Riddles
I was in foster care for ten years and what time has taught me is that sometimes when someone leaves your life, it is only so they can reenter it later. I am back in touch with two of my foster families that I had left as a child. One of them I lived with from age 10-12, left for five years and came back at age 17. They have been in my life ever since. It was hard losing them, but when the time was right, they were brought back in to my life. Please consider that there may be things these children need to experience for now that you cannot help them with. They may be back though, someday. Until then, remember them and the good times you had with them. This is the best way to honor your relationship with them. Have you tried contacting their new placement to see if you can have visits, provide respite or babysit for them?
2006-12-21 09:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by wisegirl1204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately sometimes bad things happen to good people, we just have to take life one day at a time, and accept the bad situations for what they are, opportunities to make the next persons life better.......take some time out for rest and relaxation, cry if need be, stay in contact with the children if possible, so that you know they will be ok......most of all talk out your concerns with someone who listens and that you know you can trust....
2006-12-20 00:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 someone - or rela - u know aromatherapy in da bath, and stuff - melted chocalate and get a massage done, and best way to remeer da foster kids is keep pic of them around da house, so u dont feel bad - u know of when they were happy - and happy monet in their life, also pics that they have drawn or somwthing that reminds you of them - so it feels like they are wiv u
its wot a mate of mine did when her foster children went
bless you and her for lookin after the lost souls
God be with you
Amen
2006-12-20 00:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say time heals all wounds. But in the meantime, allowing yourself to cry and making yourself busy will help.
2006-12-20 01:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by scarlett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry! Unfortunately kids all leave one way or another. Get yourself a puppy or a kitten.
2006-12-20 00:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a needle and some thread!
or a good comedy!
2006-12-20 00:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
know that they'll always be with you, in their thoughts.
and letting go is the highest form of love.
2006-12-20 00:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
crying is the best way.
2006-12-20 00:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kumari V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use staples. Or duct tape.
2006-12-20 03:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋